letter from the one who abuses you this might be what it says. or thats what mine said. (Page 4)

tylerdurdensbrother: well myself being in lots of real combat with men.

I can say id never hit a woman and I know it.

There is something psychologically wrong with those who hit women. Im not sure what it is but it is there. Something about overpowering something by so much that they feel like "god" or something. When in reality, send one of your so "tough" boyfriends over to fight me and I will show them overpowering haha.

The only reason they do it to you is because you are the number 1 most vulnerable target to them, hell, you sleep beside them, they know you are 100% vulnerable so they take that advantage...To be honest, if its not a woman they are overpowering it would most likely be a dog or child or something else.

I would know to my dad hit my mom and me.

He is a weak short nothing of a man. Mentally weak. stupid. No love for anything but himself. Lies constantly.

Maybe he works hard, and thinks that entitles him to some sort of advantage over you..like he can drink whenever and how much he wants, hell HE THINKS HE CAN DO WHATEVER HE WANTS...and you are just supposed to accept that as "who he is"..even though it hurts you and or ignores your existence.

I used to shovel shit and move bloody chicken limbs around for a living. Landscaping. Masonry, construction...I have never worked a easy job..and I can say that just because I work so hard, and my work IS hard, does not mean I can just come home and yell or hit you and blame it on stress..That is all excuses.

These types of men are useless and should be thrown away. They fall into the category of loveless men. Thats it. There are just men out there who are overpowered by the urge to overpower weaker creatures. Like hitler. Or many serial killers. It is the same mentality but of a lesser degree, sometimes not. but it is the same.

No respect for life. No recognition of human despair, agony, torture, psychology. No regard for future damage, or death caused by blunt force trauma to the skull, liver, spine, heart, throat, temple, base of skull. Or for future psychological damage.

If you cannot see that these men have problems and are not like most men then I feel sorry for you. Look harder, that would not make sense.

Good luck.
-Tyler

adrianablue: I have been in a relationship where my ex boyfriend would drink and when he got so drunk he would say very hurtful things to me, their was a time when i grabbed his arm and i told him to stop saying hurtful things to me. i even hit him to where i broke his glasses. THE next day he said he was sorry but later that evening he did it again, i finally told him i had enough. some people use alcohol has a cop out when they do something so bad.