Love at first sight and online love Ash: Ever have your heart skip beats looking at another person? Can you develop an online romance out of that?  rosie12954: hmmm...well I cant speak for every1....but I met my husband on line....he passed away and I have met my current bf rite here on wire....so...yep!!!!  Mike_Greene_Jr: uh, of course... love on line works the same way as love off line..lol... It's all love, it's all about the other person, nd wut u feel for them... nd, of course, it's about trust... rosie12954: trust is soooooo major in an online relationship...I think even more so then in real time...u can be so manipulated here Mike_Greene_Jr: yeah, totally.. but, if u love someone here, u have to trust that they love you too.. among other things u need to have faith in... like, the chance u might meet someday  irish84: it might have worked for very few that are here.....but honestly, never trust anyone online. Wheter it's for a return of feelings or return of purchase, never trust someone you can't see. Wait until you meet them and have a day with the person to start the trust, that way you can read their face and see what they're in it for....the love or the use! Mike_Greene_Jr: Uh... people always lie... no matter where, no matter what... there's always something they'll not say, or lie about. We never truly know someone. irish84: Mike, you're right, you never truly know someon. On the other hand, you can read someone's face and know if they're serious or not. On a computer, you might be looking at a different face! I don't trust anyone, except select family members and 1 friend, so take it from there. If i meet a woman, as long as i can trust certain things about her, we're good. I don't think you can ever trust someone 100%, so you settle with the closest. Online, closest doesn't apply. Mike_Greene_Jr: sure it applies on line too... it's all about wut u believe in... life is not about wut is, is wut u believe in... some believe in god, others dont. some believe in on line love, others dont... it's all bout wut u choose to believe or not. dreams, trust, or w.e, it's all false, it's all about urself, nd.. guess wut, yes, bout wut u believe in... lol yeah, sry I said that word way too much in this message...lol irish84: Mike, believing doesn't bring you a paycheck at the end of the week. If you trust anyone online, you are simply oblivious. Not you personally, in general. Trust is not a belief......if i believe someone trusts me, doesn't mean they actually do. rosie12954: thats true too.but in the big scheme of things...its not good to start out being negative...we do what we gotta and its all good I give u the benefit of the doubt till I see otherwise.... then its on...lol...I simply wont tolerate it...Im skeptikal and all...I will ask heapz of questions...if I feel ur worth my time...if not casual chat is the way to go...remember ppl dont know what u dont tell them...now if the rest of wire cud figure that out there wudnt be soooo much bs here...  Mike_Greene_Jr: well, we never really know wut someone else thinks or feels about us, either here or out of here, so, all that's left is that we believe they do.  Cosette: it's not a plausable explanation ,i like cause effect explaining things!it's like lieing meaning hating people and want them bad!nut you know this can be turned good ! rosie12954: I dont feel it is ever nessesary.....but that doesnt mean it doesnt happen....some ppl need that to justify themselves...idk why.....  Ash: I think it does happen...everyone tries to make themselves sound better, its all part of the wooing. Ive talked to a few girls on here who seem honest and nice Ash Mike_Greene_Jr: sry, the lieing part, I didnt really got to that one b4... uh, I think ppl lie if they want to... idk, I dont lie... if someone asks me w.e, I tell them the truth, I dont have anything to hide, so.. I guess I just dont really know why ppl would lie... so, yeah... :/ rosie12954: I agree with Mike...I live a good life and dont need to lie...to me its a wasted energy...Im no way close to pewrfect but I dont feel the need to embellish...actually Im just to lazy and lying is an effort...lol Mike_Greene_Jr: totally!!! Lazy ppl r def the best, cuz we just dont have the mood to lie...lol... so we just say all we are... lol wur u said made me think, tho... but, it had nutin to do with the subject here, so I just put it up on my blog |