Finding the "true love" SnowAngel903: Tell me, how are you suppossed to find that one true love? Holla if you wanna give it a try. Luna: That's the thing about that, it's rather tricky because...well, you can't "find" it. It has to want to find you, and I guess at the right time it will come. I know this sounds cliche and rather weird, especially from a single mom, but I've been in love once and it's the best feeling in the world when it's true, and I haven't felt that way with anyone else since. Now whether you can find it again after you've lost it is a totally different question. snowing: I relly agree with Luna's beautiful words.I think true love will show in our life one time ,And we just need to wait for it . And in my notion it's a kind of feeling which could make me feel 'yes,it's him,the one I wait all the time' Luna: Now I've actually had that true love, and I still feel the same about him as I ever have, but he died 4 years ago. So I've been looking around, haven't found that good one again. Hoping for a miracle. Uninspired: Those words about true love are nice.. but what are you supposed to do if you find that one special person and they don't feel the same? montsse: I guess when you feel that you have found that true love and this person doesn't feel the same, that shouldn't mean that he/she isn't meant to you maybe she/he is experience with the wrong ones to get to you. Love is so much complicated sometimes. shariz4u: It will show in the eyes of your lover, it shows in care for you, it shows in the love for you, it will show in the respect for you dminister27: I wish you luck, just don't get your hopes up too much. Thought I had it but seems like that's not the case any more. Guess I'm on the same sort of search. btfriendly: What exactly is true love? I mean we all go through life jumping from one relationship to other, trying to make the best out of the relationship we are in now. It says that true love only comes once in a lifetime. Then what's the difference btw your true love and all your past lovers? I'm sure we all have loved all the guys that we have dated, then who is your true love? the one that you decided you love more then the other guys? madhawazu: Its a greate Joke if someone finding the true love through the internet. There are no one i see still having a honest mind ,only for sx~. I cant understand how those peoples get a consolation for their souls. Allways all of you ran away from the love. No wonder ,its a error in open economy. If someone want find true love , go away from the internet, go to the real world and find and see from your hearts. All the best Luna: I really think that if you believe that someone is your true love but they don't feel the same, then that person isn't really your true love but more of a really hard infatuation. Sometimes it's hard to tell the difference between love and lust and it's confusing when you're out looking for that one special someone. But I will say for sure that a true love is someone who loves you back and someone you can find yourself spending the rest of your life with. Of course, true love does come with its bumps, but so does everything else! YellowIris: What I find soul destroying is thinking you have found it and then realising they don't feel the same. misc123abe: Not sure about true love. However, you can love someone. If you love someone to me means not causing someone to hurt mentally ( no mind games) or physically( no beatings). Just a thought. Rainbow4ever: how do you know that u love someone ? and how can we let him know that ? is there any true love remain ? shadow1314116: I want to find true love,but I am a little shy,and hardly to say love even I really fall love with someone.it is hard for me to find true love Rainbow4ever: me too........ i just know that i am waiting for true love, want to have true love but too scare of it. fdre43: there is nothing called true love; i believe that there is only LOVE and any thing less than love is just feelings, so dont cheat to your self and say im in love when you are not!! unfortunately, people know what "true love" after some experiences that would make it so hard to fall in love again. and u know what, it's easy just think like what a fresh high school student may think, do u remember those days?!! there's one more thing to tell you and it's very important:.. "COMPLEXITY KILLS LOVE" so be as simple as you were in high school, so simple and ready for love!!!!!!!!!!!! JonnyThought: : Here are You There am I Where asks is Love not yet met Or eye looks blind? What must it be For us to see From dusk till dawn kiss All for one Truly @JonnyThought on Twitter Take Care & God Bless pancakeandsyrup: True Love can come in many different ways. And it is hard to really be ready for it sometimes. Rainbow4ever: True love can happen at anytime, at anyplace, with any person. When we expect nothing we will receive everything. True love start from giving, not from receiving. Everyone can be loved. Everyone can share love. True love can be for friends, for brother and sister, for mum and children , .......for everyone around. |