need some advice Vicki: I'm married and have never felt more lonely in my life. I'm also 7 months pregnant with our second child. My biggest problem is trying to fix the void in my marriage. My husband and I used to be able to talk all the time and now we have no connection. More immediately, our problem is the fact that I am two months away from giving birth and have yet to set up the baby's room. We have two rooms in addition to ours and right now one is occupied by my two stepsons, who are here two weekends every month. The other one is occupied by our son. My husband wants to put our son in with my two stepsons a  princess: I am also married and am very lonley.I just joined this to meet a friend to talk to.I have a 7 year old son from the guy I am married to now.His only child. I have 2 other children from my former marriage.A son who is 23 and a daughter who is 26,son has no children,daughter has one 6 year old so I am a grandmother at age 49.I have so many troubles and no one to talk to.please reply if you want to talk.I live in Tennessee. princess: Vicki, I am Marie, the one that replied to your message.I put a post,called looking for a friend.I just need someone to talk to. you may not be online right now but if you want to talk let me know.marieloudon@aol.com boredathome: Hello Vicki, I can understand your loneliness. It does help to have someone to talk to. Can you talk to your husband about your concerns? How does your stepchildren get along with your son? I was married for 7 years and my husband had 2 sons and I have a daughter, they were about the same age. The kids did not get along too well so we split up and then divorced. <br><br> justwannatalk: it sucks feeling this way, but I feel lonely even though I have a boyfriend. He only acts sweet with me when he wants to, when I look for it, he doesnt. I have felt lonely when I was pregnant as well and I was married. My ex husband(well husband at the time) was a very self centered person and I had many teary eyed nights, wondering if it was me. Now I am in a situation where everything was so beautiful in the beginning and now almost 2 years later I am sad again. My son is 10 and I have him with me, if it wasnt for him I probably would've went nuts already. My boyfriend id very good to my son but not always peachy with me. I am constantly asking if we can make out. I wish I was stronger and could just break up with him but it isnt that simple. 123: Don't get pregnant again until this matter is solved. Is there no public counselor you and your husband can see? Your husband might have a lot of concerns, such as some jealously over the baby, how he is going to support all of you, and so on. Don't be afraid to seek help. Most people seek it at some time.  just_me2789: i have an issue that i need help with. i am having trouble getting over my break up. my ex-feiance and i split up over something i feel could have been avoided, but i was stupid. you see i went to this website and registered to it to find some friends and well she found out and accused me of trying to cheat on her which i wasnt trying to do. we were in a rocky time in our relationship. a time she called STALE id have to aggree with her everything was monotinous and predictable. i never wanted this to happen now the love of my life is gone and i have nothing but memories of her and my son since i was forced to leave. I cry myself to sleep every night and i feel like an empty shell that will never be filled back up she said that there was no chance for reconcilliation shelly_24: Hello! This is my very first serious relationship that I've been in love with someone. I've known this guy awhile but now we are dating and living together, and now that he's my boyfriend my feelings for him has changed. I love him so much, he's funny, a good father and friend. He just plays entirely to much and he doesn't take me serious at all. Now it's getting to the point that I'm getting frustrated and thinking twice about wanting to marry him. People say thats just love but I don't see it. I don't won't to lose him but I don't know how much more I can take! tpaq: Im a married man and I feel lonely. My is very mean and nasty all the time. I am a happy person by nature.I think she may be joulous of my happy nature. She never gives any incouragement or hints to my success Im very sad to know my relationship with her is about to end. Any suggestions? tpaq: Im a married man and I feel lonely. My is very mean and nasty all the time. I am a happy person by nature.I think she may be joulous of my happy nature. She never gives any incouragement or hints to my success Im very sad to know my relationship with her is about to end. Any suggestions?  G9lbs3oz: My hubbie and I haven't been happy nor satisfied with each other since we had kids. He has lied and cheated several times in our past and now I have just joined him in his self-destructive nature. Sure, he's happy now but I feel like I have wasted all my time as I was trying to have a career and be an outstanding mother/friend. He went from alcoholic to c@^w*-head and now we have lost everything we had previously worked hard for. I still have a great relationship with the two kids but since him and I fight a lot they are stressed and most of the time I spend tending to his insecurities and 'problems' instead of the kids like I wish. BKSUGAR: What do you think about a single man (who is a pastor) dating a married woman with two children and her husband does not know. But they seem to think that it's OK becuase they are just friends? Chatterbox53: I can totally understand just how frustrating it is,you cannot change someone elses behavior,love doesn't have limits,but disrespect does. I believe you are heading for bigger disapointments,if you decide to marry him.To live with someone isn't the same as married,commitements are never to be taking lightly. If he doesn't grow up,who is the one left ,to make major sound decsions? nawalove: hi dears thanks for this wounderful site really Ihave an funny problem that other people may laugh at me but really really Ineed to visit a cosmetic center [best ]cometic center for training on rhino plasty ..the problem is Iwanna to learn and become mnore efficient in 6month -1 year ,,,but Ihave no mony to reach there and how they accept me please if any one can help me [note ]Iam acosmetic doctor] aLWAYS iAM THINKING ABOUT IT IT FILLS MY MIND CANT SLEEP PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME THANKS Vallie: I need advice I have been with my husband for 9years and only been married for 2yrs and he is currently deployed and he has changed soo much as if he doesnt care what he say doesnt hurt me. Today he through finacial stuff in my face and to him he thins he isnt wrong. I want a divorce because 1 Im always alone I take care of our girls alone and go to school.I know I can move on with out i=him but I dont know if I school because Im still in love with him. Any oppinions or advvice would help Zoebuddy: I have a problem that I think you can help me with. I caught my ex in bed with 2 different women 2 times and now he is in hospital he was trying to commit saucide because I broke up with him. What do I do I will never stop loving him as he is my first love But I dont want him in my life having him is much painful than being without him Please help me give me courage to not feel sorry for him. Zoebuddy: I have a problem that I think you can help me with. I caught my ex in bed with 2 different women 2 times and now he is in hospital he was trying to commit saucide because I broke up with him. What do I do I will never stop loving him as he is my first love But I dont want him in my life having him is much painful than being without him Please help me give me courage to not feel sorry for him. My email is Zphillip@webmail.co.za  I want help: Hello guys I have a problem I really need advice for. So I am 13 and I was accepted into a class called avid where we are taught organization. Neatness. Ect but while they were presenting there class pictures of a lot of balloons came up. To be honest I don't like balloons like I really don't like them. I think this class would be a great chance to have a better future and not many kids are given this chance but I don't wanna break down into tears because one day a balloon pops. I am left with two options. Should I not take the class at all or email the teacher and admit to hating balloons and ask for dates of balloons. Plz give any advice you have  GeraldtheGnome: You need to see someone that can help you overcome your fear of balloons for a start, I to some degree fear sparks and to a minor degree open flames, mainly large ones due to me getting burnt when I was six. I did not get burnt by a flame at the time or by a spark. It’s very rare that I ever have anything to do with either of them so it’s not really a problem for me and I can easily avoid all of that. If a balloon pops it will not physically hurt you so don’t worry about it. Until you have dealt with it properly tell your parents and your teacher. What concerns me from what I have seen on this site is a way too casual approach to something that I hope that you don’t do at school because I can see that on this forum. When anyone sends a text message on the phone then I can understand anyone using a shortcut, away from the phone though things like plz should be avoided, especially at school. The other minor issues I will not bring up because at the moment a psychopath who makes false accusations, false claims and insults myself and most others he has a grudge against is singling out myself and them in the spineless, gutless coward’s safe space where he is unfair to most people, thinks that he is better than everyone else, he thinks that he is smart and that he is smarter than anyone else.The opposite is true about him. He knows how to complain about others and he doesn’t really have a true answer to what he thinks is right, but to him most people he goes against are wrong, most of the time he never proves that he is right most of the time. He once thought I was wrong about something and when I proved that I was right and he was wrong about it he never brought it up again. He is not one to admit that he is ever wrong, to him he is never wrong, I very much doubt that he ever thinks that he is wrong, he is delusional, proud, lacks empathy for anyone, he is irrational, illogical and vain. The list goes on about his bad traits. Everyone has made mistakes, Ido not exclude myself from that. I saw him publicly display on this site someone’s private message to him. He doesn’t even feel guilty about that yet he himself likes things about himself left private. How do I get that colossal prick removed from this site permanently ? | Off Topic Chat Room Similar Conversations |
