what kind of wife does a man want gracechen: i always want to be a nice wife .in my husband's eyes .maybe i am good enough now for him. but i want to be better . but i am sure that i am not a nice wife . i am not good at cooking .i can't cook a nice meal for him .i am usually busy. i do have enough time to company with him and the little angle . for i want to share the family's resposibilty with him .but tell me what kind of wife should a woman be can make the husband really feel happy and always have the enegry to go on with his future.  darclee: I have 25 yrs of marriage experience and I never thinking like you, he must make me happy! I don't need to make him happy. He cooks for me, not me for him. And every mornings, he tell me " wake up, your coffee is ready". He loves me so as I am, even if I never loved him. Few days ago he told me the reason, why he love me: "because u r nuts".... hahahaha, I know how crazy I am, and I know too he is right. I suggested him to divorce because i am bored, and he agreed.   gracechen: marriage must be balance so i just want the happy feeling last for long .so i don't want the husband always do a lot for me .i want to do something for him ,too.  _ŦĦÂ_БĿăČҜ_ҜחłĠ: only if the man wants to get married that is..i value my single life..because broads cant chill the fuc out these days darclee: gracechen, don't worry, be happy because life does not begin and end with men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   chandu: faithful/loyal one then automatically love, care, affection, attraction,respect spreads and showers on them  gracechen: i am not worried ,maybe i just want to be perfect .but it's really hard .i also know that there is no such perfect thing in the world. in fact my husband really give me a lot .so just want to give him a surprise. i don't always want to be the receiver but also want to be a gier _ŦĦÂ_БĿăČҜ_ҜחłĠ: make sure his ass is perfect first before you change anything about you or commit to a man Eyes_Of_Nature: You are a wife not a PET and u have to be a person who is not controled. First sujest to make a good idea what a wife is before wanting to be better.  divakar1970: easy answer a husband want his wife as a mother when he gets up in the morning,wife as sister in the day time ,wife as a friend in the evening, and wife as a w#xzx in the bed means every lady plays all 4 roles for different person and a husband wants wants her to play all 4 for him , a man is like a baby u should treat him like one i would say u have 2 babies 1 big and 1 little ange l remember that u r a superiour s&y man is not man hardly knows any thing it is the lady who make him feel like a man and inspite of being superior let him take the lead in every move, the beauty is that she follows her husband with all her grace but the husband should also realize the same and should honour her for greatness and kindness gracechen: thanks i see. in fact my husband always say that he has two angles .a big one and a small one. but for so many years i have never thought clearly how to play a role as a wife. i just like a child to accept his love and all that he gives me .so i think it's time that i must play a role as wife and do something that a wife can do .in other words .i have grown up indeed. divakar1970: nice we always grow up and learn everyday in life i know u r the best wife just cheer up enjoy u r really sweet  Purseaholic22: A wants a woman who can take care of the family and provided and he should do the same thing in return. A man wants a woman to take care of him meaning have the dinner ready for him and others things as well.  AretoNyx: I think sad that for husband or wife that spouse think they are only to serve, or be served. There is no such thing as perfection including ourselves. Each is their own way per place we are. In the end instead of superficial where variation of acceptance with fetishes, tastes, interests, kink, appearances, politics, hobbies, and so on there is more to a relationship. Confident and trust in one's self first besides habits Sunday to day is key. This because if we do not have such with ourselves how can any one else to us , or even way we treat others? Most issues I have had in any relationship is many whom feel the desire of control/ power lust, the desire of being exactly alike/ agreeable in all cases of difference, being needy, being distant, and being just plain unconfident in themselves. Trust is one key to healthy non toxic relationship. |
