DID U BELIEVE THAT FIRST LOVE NEVER DIES?

Its All About Love Honey
Mg101: for me i dont believe that first love never dies,,,
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Jessi
Jessi: I agree...
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Mg101
Mg101: thanks,,,
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minnie_mm
minnie_mm: yes u cant ever forget d feelings of 1st love.
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Mg101
Mg101: well i dont know...because wat i feel its hurts instead...
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minnie_mm
minnie_mm: its just ur attitude hon....love is always meant to b given...if u dont get it back...remember it with all gud reasons...
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Mg101
Mg101: well im not sure because im allways hurt,,,sometimes i wish that i dont have feelings anymore....
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minnie_mm
minnie_mm: hey....dont b so negative...come on...its life..
sometimes it hurts u n sometimes makes u feel like d magic..
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Mg101
Mg101: i know,,but sometimes i cant take it anymore
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minnie_mm
minnie_mm: i know it hurts like hell at time dear but then we have to move on....
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Mg101
Mg101: true...
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minnie_mm
minnie_mm: I WISH U ALL D BEST HON....TAKE CARE...N TRY TO ENJOY LIFE AS IT COMES..
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Mg101
Mg101: thanks....see ya around..
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sunjordan
sunjordan: yes it is ,
but the first true love not the first love
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sunjordan
sunjordan: never dies believe me u thought that it dead but it's not
u may will face something that will assure u that it's still there
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Mg101
Mg101: i have a first love..but when im thinking about him,,i dont really feel wat i feel,,its confusing and i dont understand d feelings if i have it or not...
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sj12
sj12: well I do agree
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sj12
sj12: They're all saying it these days --
in schools and colleges,
in parks and restaurants,
at workplaces and in bedrooms,
over the phone and through the e-mail.
They first say it as a declaration,
then as an assurance.

Even people who normally don't converse in English,
when it comes to expressing this primary emotion,
prefer 'I love you' to its vernacular equivalent.
Just as the way it happens in the movies:
the actor or the actress will flirt in the movies,
but the flirtation usually culminates
with the mouthing of the inevitable
'I love you.'

But when people say
'I love you' to each other,
what exactly do they mean?
That they want to get married?
That they find each other irresistible?
Or is it an expression of affection or admiration?
Or an unstated agreement to have s^~?
No one knows.
The answer is bound to be as
complicated as the definition of love.

But one thing is certain.

Ten years ago, when you said 'I love you',
no matter what you meant by that,
it was taken not only as a declaration
of love but also of commitment.
It was sacred as a vow.
And you usually said it only once in your lifetime --
to the person who eventually became your spouse.
And the pleasure of saying it was similar
to using a smuggled French perfume.

Today, you can get the same perfume
in the neighbourhood departmental store.
Similarly, 'I love you' is now a free commodity.

" Today,
'I love you' no longer means
you are the only one I love.
It is only an expression of feeling,"
says psychiatrist

So today, people are falling in love
more often than ever before.
And not just with one person.
Today you might be in love with someone,
but you are free to walk out if the relationship is
stifling and fall in love with someone else.
Unlike the days of the past
when only death could do you apart.

Does that mean the present generation
is less sincere when it says 'I love you'?
I doesn't think so.
"They no longer say it to express a commitment.
I believe they mean it when they say it,"

Perhaps, with culture and tradition,
relationships have become flexible too.
Take the case of my friend journalist
who relocated in metro a year ago.
Friendless in a new city,
he took to the Internet chatrooms.
There he met Girl, 18, a student of College.
They fell in love even before they met;
and when they met,
a passionate affair began.
But in less than six months,
she was gone, after having
declared her love a million times.

"I think she grew out of the relationship.
But when she used to tell me 'I love you',
I could see she meant every bit of it,"
says my friend journalist,
who nursed a broken heart for a
while before moving on -- to other women, of course.
Today, both speak on the phone occasionally,
like "good friends."

So where does this leave love?
my another friend said,
''The word love means nothing to me at the moment,"
"But I know when I meet my knight in shining armour,
then it will have a lot of significance.
At this point in time, if someone said it to me,
I would not believe him."

Why not?
The answer is simple --
'I love you' is no longer the smuggled French perfume.
Say it to any woman today and
she's unlikely to be impressed
Instead, she's likely to turn back and ask:
"How many people you have said this to before?"

In any case,
no one falls in love with a
Tom, Dick or Harry these days

So you fall in love with and marry
someone compatible.
After that what?

"As long as you are in love minus the responsibilities,

you are crazy about it.

Once married, the colours start fading.

Moreover,

where is the time

for romance after you have a child?"

it seems so crazy,'' she says.

Is it really worth falling in love?
For that, we have to first define love.
And that's not as easy as saying,
I love you.
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sunjordan
sunjordan: mg1o1 if that's dilemma is there, so ur feeling about that love still there
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Mg101
Mg101: actually i donno...
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hanan_25
hanan_25: I agree.
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hanan_25
hanan_25: Mg101
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sj12
sj12: Today I begin to understand what love must be, if it exists...
When we are parted, we each feel the lack of the
other half of ourselves. We are incomplete like a book in
two volumes of which the first has been lost.
That is what I imagine love to be: incompleteness
in absence ..........
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Mg101
Mg101: really?
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hellenic_light
hellenic_light: Yes yes, i believe that first love never dies..i still remember that guy..ummmmmm what was his name lol j/k

Yes first love dies...and it clears the way for the next love
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Mg101
Mg101: thats what i thought..lol
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