Why don't women act like women anymore?

Topsyturvy
Topsyturvy: This was inspired by the, men act like men, topic. However for me, this question is more relevant. Ive found ive been dating more and more asian women, due to the fact that they are so much more feminine than western women.
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ElectricPotato
ElectricPotato: lol how are they more feminine than someone like me?
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ElectricPotato
ElectricPotato: or other western women in general?
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Topsyturvy
Topsyturvy: LOL, Next time u walk into a shopping centre, watch the women that surround u, and then tell me im wrong. LOL
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ElectricPotato
ElectricPotato: yeah some hot butches lol, some of them are fem, some are in between. What do you consider to be feminine?
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zolinah
zolinah: What Women Want: To be loved, to be listened to, to be desired, to be respected, to be needed, to be trusted, and sometimes, just to be held. What Men Want: Tickets for the world series.....

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missapplefritter
missapplefritter: Yes, what do you considered to be feminine? It could be feminine to you but not for others. Just individual's preferences don't you think?
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Topsyturvy
Topsyturvy: LOL, Your all good fun! Feminine, in my opinion is: Not as easy to put on paper as i initialy thought! So I'll state what isn't feminine:
Bad language (big turn off) I.E. ghetto speak.
Tattoo's (Also big turn off)
Inappropriate actions (being slutty, overly flirty (not just with other guys but also with me))
Poor language skills etc

Man i could go on, but the underlying fact is that women are women, and men are men. But modern society has blured the line. There are plenty of men whom like manly women and ghetto trash, and that's ok, just not me. Women should be soft and sweet, cheeky and funny, employed and independant. There's no bigger turn off than a clingy woman. MEH, im done. Later.
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missapplefritter
missapplefritter: Ok. Now I understand your point. .Lots of women are still on the lists of that "feminine" label. I am asian myself. Living and trying to fit myself here in the west is a bit challenging. It's just a matter of wisdom, I brought my culture with me which I know I am very comfortable and safe. At the same time, open the horizon of understanding to the culture that surrounds me.
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bigrabc
bigrabc: yeah and i know what i want but can't get it. lol
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flowers98
flowers98: Cultures have changed and women have been more independant. Likewise, men have become more feminine. Compared to 50 years ago, men went out to work to earn a living for his family and women stayed at home to take care of kids and house.

In modern countries nowadays, most women have worked at least one job before settle to manage kids & house. Most women are still working after having kids, these women are doing the men's job. Men have easier life than before and this makes them less muscular and less able to maximize their thinking.

This trend will continue.
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lawwl
lawwl: Try dating a Christian XD
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Malobear
Malobear: The answer is alot more complex than many think. I am 56 and the differences of what was around for young kids to do was very different. There was no internet,no computer games and wasn't alot to do inside. TV to many was a Black and White and maybe someone had a Color TV in the neighborhood and what the hell was cable TV> To most Rabbit Ears or a antenna that was on top of the roof. The fact is most of us went outside to play, this made us stronger because we played alot of sports,hunted and such. The foods we ate I think were healthier for our bodies. Most of what we ate was grown or raised in the local area and didn't have all the chemicals and hormones that are in foods you buy at the store and processed foods at fast food places and such. Eating at Mc Donalds was the exception for many.
Now that I have bored you enough, how does all this relate to this thread. I think these foods have to some degree have altered things in children today especially women.Some girls that are barely teenagers could pass for a girl almost 20. In my teen years that was almost unheard of or seen. While I am sure the girls like this. Eating foods that are tainted with hormones come with a price. certain cancers and neurological abnormalities are possible.
But alot of girls came up when the family structure was not good. These girls were born to mothers that came up in the Womens lib movement so with alot of girls born into homes with Fathers they either didn't know or barely knew of coarse they learned how to be both, they had no choice. And boys were the same way. Easy divorce has affected this nations young.
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WAYTOBIG
WAYTOBIG: Malobear that sure was a good read and so true.
You forgot to mention about the high tec remote control for the TV. hahahahhahahha

Mr Topsy What is wrong with a slutty woman in a bedroom?
It seems that you like your women very feminine,is that for easy control?
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adventurous_ami
adventurous_ami: not to sure about that.. could it be because some asian wemen as more submisive?
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MissRay
MissRay: whats wrong with a woman having tattoos?
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LawsonLachelle
LawsonLachelle: I can see where people think that ladies arent lady like anymore but ladies arent treated like ladies anymore. I cant tell you the last time i had a guy under the age of 40 hold open a door for me or offer to help me carry a heavy box to my car. It also doesnt help when you turn on the tv and instead of being call Women or Ladies we are called B*t*hes or hoes.

On the other hand very few parents teach manners anymore or teach there kids how to cook , clean or take care of themselves. It amazes me that girls my age 25 who cant cook or clean im not saying you have to be the best house keeper or cook but for goodness sake know how to do ur own laundry or be able to boil some water.
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Debbylonglegs
Debbylonglegs: Wow..Topsy..what..a..stereotype...that..was.

You...made...me..think...of..a..few...possibilities:
*You..aren't...looking..hard...enough.
*You..aren't...looking...in..the..right...places.
Or...
*Perhaps...that..type...of..girl...isn't..interested..in..you.

You...should...take..a...look..at..yourself...before...you..
make...such...a..judgemental..statement

'Cuz...I..am...very...feminine...and...there...are...many...others...in
"all"...cultures...as..well.
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Zen777
Zen777: we will never understand each other . don't you just love the mystery in all that.
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Topsyturvy
Topsyturvy: Hi Debbielonglegs, Im a very observant person, i notice things that people around me never notice, as a lot of people are very ignorant of what surrounds them. I base all my judgements on body language, as the body never lie's, unlike one's mouth, lol.
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super_sugar_fun_time
super_sugar_fun_time: To each their own, I think a lot of men are willing to get themselves an asian or russian woman off the internet because women of their own culture would deem them undesirable. Some because they wan't a woman who will 'behave'.

We have all seen mr Sad and his paid for wife. But what of it, everyone deserves a chance of having s~w at some point in their lives, and no it's not about love when you look at a man and see a jackass with a visa. My god, we still live in a world where you can buy a woman off the internet - women's rights still have some way to go.

It is not all sinister though. Some people also will go for the exotic, some people just love to date outside their culture, I think this is a biological thing as no better way to spread and improve the DNA than to go outsideof your tribe.

meh - just my thoughs, I don't really care who he wants to date.

As for being ladylike, I can be, I don't have any tatoos I always wear makeup and do my hair, I know how behave in a modest or demure fashion. I do not drink or swear to excess.

Unless I feel like doing it. There are times I love to flirt, and I can be very sexually agressive if I choose. I know for a fact some men find me very threatening.

But it is my choice, and that is what is important in the end.
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Debbylonglegs
Debbylonglegs: Topsy~

I base my opinions on what comes out of a person's mouth as well. I am sorry to say... you sound like an arrogant ass.
That is my "opinion". I would never try to stereotype your sw@ ofcourse.
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Vim_Fuago
Vim_Fuago: "women are women, and men are men. But modern society has blured the line"

^^^this is naive...modern society hasnt blurred the line. You have.

I think this attitude of western girls being too dominant is from a place of ignorance, laziness and lack of dominance on your part. Women, naturally, are emotionally and sexually submissive beings. I know, I know you’re going to give me examples of “strong women” blah blah blah. Good. But for every strong dominant woman there is a stronger dominant man.

I suggest you start working on yourself first before dismissing western girls...and without sounding like tony robbins, you have to clean out skeletons out of your closet. Ask yourself if you
- Hate, despise women because they have it “easy” and you don’t
- Hate people because they have things you don’t
- Have anger towards “world”, Government, police, authority, taxes, whatever else has authority over you
- Have self doubting thoughts
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AINZELBABY71
AINZELBABY71: Well I personally feel, its because they lack self respect. Its so sad how some women would degrade themselves in such a way , just to get guys attention. Now adays s&y is very over rated. U
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super_sugar_fun_time
super_sugar_fun_time: Nowadays s&z is over rated - that's an unusual turn of phrase.
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Aryaa
Aryaa: nice topic. I won't go into debate of asian or western women.
But, I strongly believe that men and women are different and that difference should be cherished. Femininity is our trademark and need to preserve that...lol.
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