Single Life Metaverseguy: I'm single again and every woman I've met has been the wrong woman. Either I do everything right and they just don't want to commit or I'm stuck in a bar/club listening to every excuse in the book why they are a biatch and don't need a man. I'm not a bad guy. I'm intelligent and handsome. I just feel like it's a waste having to go to a h%^#&* everytime I'm h#xy^.  nouchimy: The advantages of being single are far outweight the disadvantages. Once u have a relationship, u will lose all these merits. Metaverseguy: That's what I hear from my single women friends. I think online dating will really boom soon. People can just weed out everything they hate in a person, unless they are a misanthropist of course.  Johnson_NYC: it seems we all in the same spot .. let me tell you something , Ive been looking for a gf bout 2 years , believe that . I am talking about real serious girlfriend . till this day i couldn't find . they all wanna play parts so what did i do is just walk alone till she comes around . accidents take place . don't worry you can't stop everything coming to you just wait . and living without love is like disaster you know am sayin'  Topsyturvy: How many times do i need to say this, stop being girls. Women make excuses because your the same as every other looser that's approched her in her life, and she's sick and tired of the same thing over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again. You get the idea. Women, esspecially good looking women, get approached by, no wait. 25 year old good looking woman, will go out be it clubing (well use clubing for an example) and she'll be approached by say 5 guys each time. She goes out say 3 times a month, thats 180 times a year, and that's being conservative, let alone all the approaches she gets, during normal day to day life. Lets add the times approached since she was 18, 1260 approaches, just while clubbing, Think about it!!! And all the guys do pretty much the same thing, they tell her she looks pretty or hot, or walk up and say hi my name is , or something else lame. She gets sick and tired of this, and they learn to put up a barrier, the bz~yx shield. They don't want to be mean, but what choice does she have, your the same as every other looser that's approached her to this point in her life. So, be different. All guys do the same thing and think their being so original. Walk into a place, be a man, own the room, chat to people, Women are watching, they don't want the looser in the corner, or the followers within a group, they want the leader of the group. So be the LEADER!!! Man this subject could go on all night. I have a visitor . Later everyone. Metaverseguy: Well it's pretty vague advice that I've heard before. Being hot really isn't that fantastic a quality in women. Congratulations she can afford a gym membership and put on makeup. Obviously I look for more than just that. I can get in a relationship with someone tomorrow, based on looks, and get cheated on because she's superficial and only cares about her beauty. That's a pretty shallow quality and I can't listen to her talk about how beautiful she is all day so she'll need to run off to other men. No, it's not very pleasant, sir. Johnson_NYC: ooh yesterday day I heard " People over confident they get punish " loool . you must got it twisted . we all can get one faster than birds who can deny that . anywhere anytime .. streets / malls / gym..etc but is she the suitable girl you looking for  Alina_Alexander: Ger married? Be a housewife? Have babies? Tie me down? Are you nuts? I have a wonderful relationship with myself and couldn't be happier. Alina_Alexander: Casanova > I have many close friends all around the world and at home. Some very close and special. And I am not "many people", just me. Thanks for your response. Metaverseguy: " People over confident they get punish " I don't really think that I'm being overconfident. If a woman I'm dating is obsessed with being pretty then she must have some self-esteem issues. I don't think it's right for someone to cheat on their partner in a relationship. Yes, I know this isn't Heaven and everything isn't perfect, but I wouldn't want someone to get pregnant from another man or to spend her time/energy with someone else when they are supposed to be loving me. I'm glad there are condoms and paternity tests, but they don't solve everything. blonde goddess: not advice just mostly true.... we spend our single life wishing we were in a realationship. when we are in a relationship we spend our time wishing we were single. enjoy being single  memberX: ha...when you spend your life eating, drinking and shitting...and you have nothing left behind reminds you of your very existance...one day...you will wake up and say... I've lived just for me(and nothing special about it) im the great egoist. Alina_Alexander: There is quite a difference between being an "egoist" and being "rightfully selfish". I am the only one that I will never lose or leave, and I am stuck with myself until death do me part. I MUST take care of myself first, because if I can't take care of me, how can I possibly take care of anything outside of me. We get a life from what we earn, but we "make" a life by what we give. Life is all about self-actualizing, taping into those creative elements we were given, to nurture, grow, and move forward as best as we can. If we have a "passion" for life, split the word apart: PASSION = PASS I ON. And if you take the word "intimacy", look at it this way: "IN TO ME SEE" - look within and discover all of those self-actualizing potentialities which just lay waiting to be nurtured. Like the seed of an oak tree, I have the potential of being a giant oak. Metaverseguy: PASSION = PASS I ON I doubt there is any correlation between passion and being able to break it up into three different words. Try doing that with excitement or eagerness. | Dating Chat Room Similar Conversations |
