multiple dating is good or bad
Topsyturvy: Let me put it like this, if u were going to buy a car, would u walk into a dealership, test drive one car and buy it, of course not.
One test drives multiple different models, and going on our original requirements, and a bit of emotion, one purchases a car.
The same goes for women, why not test drive as many as possible and settle down with the best one, or u could drive a few and settle for a psycho, and regret the desicion the rest of your life. Each to their own. lol. later.
†Jack☠OfHearts†™: It's ok to 'test drive' but not drive two or more cars at the same time. haa dude just take your time to love one girl if it doesn't work out then you move on, no need to rush and try to date multiple girls at once it would trash the whole point in dating which is to get to know someone better.
Topsyturvy: You sound like a girl, If done correctly, u can date multiple women at the same time, and to make it even better, they all know about each other. Women are so competative, that they go out of the way to top each other. It's really rather amusing. Later.
†Jack☠OfHearts†™: ah wishful thinking Top you're just in a dream state, I'm giving the guy an honest answer.
†Jack☠OfHearts†™: Yes, we know you are a loser trapped in a delusional fantasy, but it's ok here at wire we accept everyone
Scopinitout1: I agree with Topsy here to a large extent. Dating around is fun, provides more knowledge, and certainly has some benefits - whether or not the women know that's what you're doing. However, at some point, once I've made a "tentative" choice, I'd probably date exclusively for at least two reasons: 1) to get to know her better (financial, time, and other resources are concentrated in one relationship), and 2) the woman can feel a little more secure as she gets to know you better.
As an unrelated point - why are people in here so quick to feel defensive and/or attack others? Jack of Hearts ... just because you disagree with Topsy, do you have to cut 'im down? And Topsy ... no, bub, we're not all losers. As a general comment, do we have to have drama so often in chatrooms and in so many threads? Let's just share our opinions and relax and have some fun. Isn't that the point of social networking sites?
†Jack☠OfHearts†™: Scop it would be better if you climb off of the holy thrown you seem to put yourself on and re-read that I answered the original post with my opinion and that it was Top who 'attacked' me. Now please sit back down.
ElectricPotato: yes i agree with scop. I mean i met this guy i like, we've hung out and just met weeks ago and even thought i really like him i don't really feel the security to have strong feelings for him unless i get to know him way better as a person. I sort of feel like on this subject that i personally want to be more than the "hookup girl" to a guy which is probally the way to go. Especially when you find yourself being more interested in actually getting to know the person. Hookups and bootie calls of course are a different story and point of view.
Topsyturvy: Scop, Jack of hearts was right, i was the idiot to shoot my mouth off first. Appologies all round. My germanisity gets the better of me at times. Think this is the next thing for me to work on. lol.
Some very good points have been made.
Scopinitout1: Okay, guys, sorry to you both. I'm just getting tired of all the drama and bickering in here. Seems like we ought to be able to do better. To quote a line from "The Bucket List" (from Edward Cole [Jack Nickelson] as he's tearing up the list) ... "This was supposed to be fun."
flowers98: Dating is a form of courtship, and may include any social activity undertaken, typically, by two persons with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a partner in an intimate relationship or as a spouse. The word refers to the act of meeting and engaging in some mutually agreed upon social activity. Traditional dating activities include entertainment or a meal. "Wiki"
Based on the dating definition, thus multiple dating is good because it gives you a lot more choices to choose the suitable partner since dating is just eating or chatting. No boyfriend or girlfriend.