What do men really want out of a woman? (Page 4)

SitOnAir: The pain and the continuous torture .... of her barking you.
No...just a soul mate to spend every moment with.

Blaze1Chance: not to be putting any1 down here, it's been my experience that most men think themselves to be "dogs" they want their "woman" to be their delivery person for alcohol & tobacco products or other extra curricular vices to include s^x and to drive them around while they enjoy the fruits of their vices without regard to how they make the other person feel. Personally, I'd love a man who could love me without the vices and the "dogs tude." I wanna dote on a man who would love me from the heart and see me for who I am and love me completely and without reserve or eyes for another. I'm looking for my own 4ever love too. Am I foolish to think He's really out there looking for me? I'm rite here where I've always been. Come find me, please.

memberX: I male like many things about you females...also, there is few things that I dislike...such as...
-hesitation,
-suspicious mind
-insecure feelings
-mental tormenting
-tears "out of nowhere"
-jealous behaviour
-checking points-stupid tricks
-etc

lostnthenight: Every man is different, but i think most are looking for honesty, and women who can speak their mind.

Dazza1973: Thing that goes wrong is when women were girls, parents (especilly Dads) treat their daughters like princesses. They help their girl grow.

When the girl turns into a woman and gets into a relationship, they have the expectation of being treated like a princess and being romanced 24/7.


Their(women) expectations aren't met. So insread of dealing or talking about the problem, they lay it on the male partners.

So it's his fault when women's expectations are not met. He's a heal because she has this expectation that he just automatically knows to do this.

Reality hits women in the face. They either bury the demand and resent the man or leave him because he's not good enough.

Have you noticed it's usually women that ends relationships?
They automaticlly have a hatred for men.

ashishkk: is there anyone to chat

freeforfun123: Wow,you got a lot of responses to your question, and from what I saw you did not get many answers, but then again I did not read them all. Some of the responses I did read made me chuckle, and scared me at the same time, especially the responses from women. The first problem women have when asking this question is that they ask there friends, and other women first. Therefor you get wrong advice right from the start. The problem with your first answers being wrong is that it usually stick inside your head like a virus that will help you end all your relationships badly.

Men are not that complicated for the most part we are just dumb animals it is called a 60/40 rule. 60% of everything a man wants is the same as there fellow man, 40% is different in each man. What a man wants is simple. First thing we want is trust let us go out with our friends and have are fun alone once in a wile. We are not going out to cheat, or to be away from you, we are just having the kind of fun only men can have with other men.
Second;Do not smother or control, men need there freedom, it is in are genetics to have space. The less you try to control your man and just let him be, the more he will respect, and appreciate you.

Make sure you let him be in charge, I do not mean all the time, but when you would like something done, or you would like your man to do something for you, ask, do not tell. The first problem when it comes to women in a relationship is they stop asking, and they start telling, it makes men feel as if you do not respect them as a person but more as if they are your property.

Be passionate, spontaneous, most men reveal there love and emotions through sy^. So when your man wants to make love too you in the kitchen or outside or anywhere else go with it, let him know your fire for him burns in the same way. Because the minute a man thinks your passion for him is gone thats when his want to make you happy at all times is gone as well. ( And never use s%@ as a tool, most women have become accustom to using s@# to get what they want. Now sy$ is a payment, not a part of a bond only you and your man have with each other.)

And finally listen, do not expect a man to reveal his feelings and emotions when you want him to. A man will be more subtle in how he communicates them with you. It might be just as simple as a story from his childhood or past, he is letting you know a part of something that has helped him become who he is. Just listen, do not judge, or try to change him, remember every part of him is who he is, and if you start changing one part, you just might change the hole person.

Like I said men are simple when you find a man you like and he likes you be yourself, let him be himself, that is what brought you together in the first place.

hitsugaya252: Oh i see! U wanna improve. Boys just seek 'a presentable girl' not needed to be goregeous. And love obviously.

-h u wear-h caring u are-how much u love kids-sexy-laughs n... less EGo

Kered66: Hi just me, ask yourself this, what do men say to each other when they meet?
one of the first things are "what do you do for a living" we as men are very much defined in our minds by what we "do" our self worth is very much tied to our roles we play in life. Having just asked my wife of 20 yrs to leave our marital home I can tell you what we don't want, abuse for working,withholding love from your kids because you are not happy,rather than talk problems through stick your head in facebook for 13 hrs per day to hide from them, drink heavily every day then blame it on your partner....
The list goes on. What I will be looking for in any future relationship is a person who is honest,hard working,a team player and understands that happiness is a DECISION not a destination or geographical location it is a gift you can give yourself every day "today I am happy and it will be a good day" with this attitude things are less likely to be too much.
Mostly we are looking for someone who is themselves, not a Hollywood production, someone real. My advise to you is this "BE YOURSELF" when mr right turns up he will see what is really there and will accept the lot.Until then enjoy the game and good hunting!