female to female budalazena: The question I asked him was "If a woman sleeps with another man, it's called cheating, but if a woman sleeps with another woman, it's his fantasy to watch or participate, right?" He agreed. Then I said, "But what if your woman fell in love with the other woman and left you for her, wouldn't that also be cheating?" He said, "You've got a point!" xanderiley: If I may make an observation: Not as far apart as you might think, both sides sought agreed to do something different, both failed to realize the consequences of a third person. One gained and lost, one just lost. Neither anticipated the outcome. There's also the question of how long the new relationship will last. The person you take from another can be taken from you by another. Jealousy and paranoia could wreck the new relationship. as surely as another person. stellarock16_caper08: Yes that woman would be cheating if she was sleeping with a woman and was with a man.... Cheating is cheating no matter who is sleeping with who. If your with someone thats who you should be giving your all to...... if you want to be with someone else let go of the other person dont put them through shit even if its just a s~y thing.... I know a girl who is cheating on her boyfriend with another man and leaving him hanging .... I think this is so wrong ... like i said before Cheating is Cheating no matter how pretty you tie it up !!!!!!!! motherfingsuperwoman: Depends on the relationship. And why yOur doing it, or if your hiding it from ur spouse. leigh22: If everyone agrees, then it's not cheating. But when you get physical with people, there is always the risk of emotions getting involved, even if it's just supposed to be a sexual thing. In my mind, it's not cheating, but you took a gamble and lost. salisburycin: For me...cheating isn't just the physical contact but can be an emotional one as well. | Dating Chat Room Similar Conversations |