All the wrong ways to approach a woman--tell them ladies! :P

Inquieto
Inquieto: Every time I take a walk around campus, I'm always seeing girls getting approached by guys, and often times, guys fail to even get their numbers, Ouch! But seriously, have girls just become shallow and cold-hearted towards men? Or is it that most men just don't know how to approach a woman? If you're a guy and wondering why you're always "striking out" then you might want to listen to what your fellow wire girls out there have to say about it. So ladies, what the heck is going on out there? Where do guys go wrong when they approach you and what advice can you give based on your own personal experiences? This should be interesting....
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vena01
vena01: if u have girl to be approch first know fully about her and then don'nt speek while she with her friend &someothers but don'nt approch with sexy many of girls dos'nt like that
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Kansas Cutie
Kansas Cutie: Seriously... make the first move. Why do we have to do everything? Girls are very open usually. They love hanging out with guys! Just get to know them!
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Scopinitout1
Scopinitout1: Wow, great topic, Inquieto. I'll have to check in and listen - I'm sure the ladies will have a lot to say about this topic.
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Metaverseguy
Metaverseguy: Some girls are approachable. Many have issues with men.
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unicorn1
unicorn1: dont call them babe, hun, sweetheart or darling within 5 seconds of having spoken..........dont (for the love of god!) use a cheesy pick up line.......dont converse with their chests.........in short, chat to, not up.....and g'luck...;-)
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MechaArya
MechaArya: I completely agree with Unicorn1. Guys please PLEASE don't use cheesy pick up lines or call us pet names that just shows that you are creepy/desperate/have no respect for women/all of the above.

If you believe it or not, women are people too. If you want to talk to/spend time with a girl just go up and talk to them and if things are going good ask them for coffee (or for you guys still in school) to get together to study/homework help.

Honestly we aren't that scary if you don't come off as a complete creep we're rather nice to talk too
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slinger_cherry
slinger_cherry: when you approach a girl randomly, the first thing she thinks is 'all he wants is ass'. you have to approach her or get her attention in a non-flirtatious way when she's in her zone. if she's at the gym (face it ladies, we all know we love going to the gym to scope the goods on more than one occasion) and running on a treadmill, pick the one next to her and find a way to make small talk.

If she's at the coffee shop, do something dorky (girls secretly love this) and it'll get her attention. BE COURTEOUS. if you were raised to think all men want is to get in your pants, you'd be pretty suspicious too
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ohnonotthatguy
ohnonotthatguy: Talking to her tits won"t get you nowhere and don't make stupid macho remarks

Happy Hunting
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Metaverseguy
Metaverseguy: It's very difficult to try and find a good reason to approach a woman. Unfortunately, being pretty simply isn't enough. Most women don't cook, sleep with quite a few men, drink heavily, and have quite an opinion about men, which of course is usually based in their bitter experience with them. Be prepared to deal with a lot of baggage, perhaps a few children, an ex-husband or ex-boyfriend, horrible taste in literature, movies, and video games, stupid belief in a god or gods, her obsession with believing that astrology actually means something of significance, and a love of everything "cute." Most women simply aren't very good at what they do and you have to just accept it. They demand you to tell them their pretty constantly because a lot of them are insecure and think that beauty is very important. Apart from this you must certainly must think that being a woman is an accomplishment because a lot of them walk around full of themselves only because they have two X chromosomes. This is because their fathers love them and tell them their special, even in their failures.

Their fathers are another thing you must deal with. If you thought that you would get a lovely kissing machine or a sweet lay out of this you are mistaken. Behind every woman is father with a loaded shotgun ready to kill you at a moment's notice. Despite a long list of accomplishments you can be prepared for endless scrutiny from her family telling you that you aren't simply good enough for their unemployed daughter.

Also, you must be able to tolerate her friends, all her male friends, including the ones she's slept with, and her gay friends. You must be very courteous around her gay friends and not say anything offensive about them, even if it's true. If her gay friend sleeps with a new man every night and you call him a slut it's homophobic. If you encourage him to start using a condom with his partners or politely ask that he talk about something other than his dick it is also homophobic. If can deal with all this crap, and that if you leave her on a vacation or business for more than 7 days she may feel it's necessary to sleep with your best friend guilt-free then you are ready for a girlfriend!
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ohnonotthatguy
ohnonotthatguy: Wow Casanova where you find or look for your women
"""Most women don't cook, sleep with quite a few men, drink heavily, and have quite an opinion about men""
Most women i know can cook,have slept with 2 men the most,don't drink or smoke and admire men that are hard working ,responsible and respectable
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