older women younger men a new trend ? (Page 3)
notsur3ly: For some reason I get older women interested in me but I know that's because of my maturity level and the way I live my life. For most younger women there isn't enough excitement, so to speak, in my life and they need to be shocked from time to time. Mind you, there are women across all ages that are all different. I've spoken to 19 year old women who could make women my age look like children. It is all on who you attract. You will attract the person that you feel best resembles you.
ginger6382: hello all im virginia im 51 an been divorce 3 yrs an im single i like talking to younger men in thier mid 20s an 30s an 40s an chilling out an get to know more better.
BAD WOLF_: Considering there are 51 year olds that like games, comic books and such. And considering there are 20 and 30s that love a variety of things one might consider "mature subjects" I'd sayyyyyyy a lot?
Captain Canada: Nowadays mature women are more independent and damn sure in what they want.older women are less afraid of being seen in public with a younger man holding hands walking down the street,they care less of the rumours and gossip from family and friends .women always have been with younger guys it just wasn't out the the public eye
I personally attract younger ladies,10,15 years younger than me,don't know why but it does
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classylady61: If someone makes u happy. Show you respect. Not younger than your child. Make you smile when you wake up. Can't wait to hear or see him. Don't have to support him with your money and he NOT young enough to sent you to jail then I said go for it but know when to walk away if things vet sour.
Sandra7090: I have been approached by a few younger guys and find it flattering, it doesn't mean I'm going to marry them but I can still flirt and have a good time .
cms11: Perhaps some of these women maximized earnings potential by using sex as the tool of manipulation for material and professional gain so now they feel they're entitled to actual have sex without an agenda?
Just a thought....
classylady61: A woman can't give sex if the man don't take it. Men so sex crazy they do or give anything to get it.
Siren_: I was with a younger man. He could not be trusted with money. He was dishonest about his dating habits. It took some time but finally he admitted that he lied to me about everything and that he never loved me. He admitted to leading me on. I am sure it was because he got caught.
He's not in my life anymore, thank goodness. I'm recovering from the break-up. We were together for a year. I typically am not attracted to younger men. It was spontaneous. But there were definitely lessons learned. I think I will stick to men who are around my age.
...or maybe none at all. For now I'm just going to plan a trip to New Zealand. Life goes on.
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BAD WOLF_: I can't say I've dated anyone older/mature whatever word you prefer. But I've had sexual relationships some that go on to this date. In my experience it's very unwise to try and date, usually the gap in generations is too much to handle. None of us bought anything for each other or had expectations beyond sex and a good friend to hang out with sometimes.
jooly40: Some of my best experiences were achieved when I quit worrying about age differences and began to look for a partner with mutual interests, similar goals in life, and developed the ability to listen and express myself honestly. I've dated both older and younger, using that formula, and my world became much more interesting than before.
uglycow10: I have also noticed that a lot of young men on here are fascinated by older women... Perhaps it is just the mystique !
Someone above has said that it is the person's personality that counts... And I agree.
I think that the young men of today are more open minded and simply see wonen as Don Juan did...females to be conquered, swept off their feet and made passionate love to.
I find that okder men are too busy chasing younger wonen, anyway, and have no interest in we old bags.
Another factor is that some older women are really taking care of their bodies and are therefore still attractive to younger males...and I love it.
By the way, I am a really old biddy. My picture is recent...and I think that younger guys are terrific!!!!!
So... Older woman with younger men..I am all for it.
Matter of fact, my guy is "double-digits" younger than i
uglycow10: I came to realize that as I got older that age mattered not to me. All that mattered was, the vibes.!
Most of the issues that arise have nothing to do with the couple, but rather, the outside influences. The couple tend to worry about what friends and relatives will say.....and how does one explain the younger man or older woman.
here is my answer...YOU DON'T!
It is no one's business but yours.If you are happy kickin' it together...that is all that counts.
Kudos to all of you younger guys out there who don't get hung up on the age thing, or see it as an issue.....YOU ARE REAL MEN
uglycow10: I feel that once you are attracted to someone, it's game over!
You will just want to be with that person; see that person...or talk to them constantly..Additionally, if the person makes you feel good when you chat with them, or are in their company, you will just want more and more of them..
T'is simply how attraction works.!
So keep an open mind, you younger guys.
It is not the end of the world if you develop feelings for an older woman...or vice versa.
You always have the choice to say no, and walk away from it.