Black Woman And White Men (Page 10) hornchurchmale: common to see black men with white girls. very uncommon to see white men with black girls. seems that theirs a culture that black community do not want to see white men with their women and even families give them grief! other way round is seen as socially acceptable these days. possibly why in TV advertisement etc you always see. black men courting,kissing white females and not other way round. shame really as there is still a divide in society then. people ought to be more than just colour of skin. sad that cultures and peer group pressures. keep races separated. are we not all human on same planet?  BoSubMale: Never dated a lady of color, but now that I am single I would be game!! Im in Kansas!! hit me up!! hornchurchmale: won't be dating anybody as married but have met a lady of colour once whom was not only stunning looking but bright and exceptional personality. a real joy to be around! now if I was several decades younger and not married. ...  jm_les_gens: a thing that ive noticed from friends ppl that came from africa, immigrants, and other ones surrounding me that i dont especially know but that ive noticed 2: Proud, fresh clean and often its Her that seem to ''rule the relation, their actions , momentarly ..stronger couple than french canadian ones. .. I like everybody but beein in relationship with a black lady ? For sure, would say yes  joffa: Good Morning from sunny Australia! maybe it is me, but I have never considered race or colour to be an issue, it is the person. I know people of different races, religions, skin colours, and each is an individual, they have their life experiences, I have mine! Together we can bloom and flourish! hornchurchmale: thats. often true Joffa where that other person also has no attitude or social or peer group pressure against you! I too have met all races and worked with different people .men women. religion .races and have only found rare inbuilt or taught issues with odd individual . treating each other with simple courtesy and respect is basis of any society and cilvil interaction is needed even more as groups get bigger. with ever increasing density of population of humanity ( out of control now) conflicts are and will arise on ever increasing scale. sadly many races have social attitudes that endure. You will see for example many advertisements on TV where a white female is with black male . ( trying to show happiness and all living with each other etc) very rare to show a black female with a white male. in real world this is here at least true too. sadly black females take offence at. another black female being white a white male ( are out black males not good enough etc) and that person sis resented and can become outcast. black male with wife female though is rarely objected to and seen as a social norm in nearly all cases now. no real reason. to have objections of a person loves another . society. still adapting but suffering peer group pressure and inbuilt racism that needs to be worked on.  muskey68: I have been fortunate to have had a serious relationship with 3 black women in my life time. All 3 treated me with deep respect an honor. There was never a time when I wasn't made to feel to be number 1 in their lives. They always met my needs both physical and emotional. I loved all 3 and wouldn't hesitate to love again.  Bytr: Interracial dating is as much about being attractive and dateable as anytime else. I'm tired of unattractive people trying to hook up with anyone just to be included. If you're interracial you then have to be more attractive, more muscular, more successful and more interesting than what is common. Right? I have never had a successful relationship with a white man, a black man, or a Hispanic man (Edited by Bytr)  Motati: "If you're interracial you then have to be more attractive, more muscular, more successful and more interesting than what is common. Right?" Is it only about interracial or dating in general? Motati: Not sure if this is all about men having all those qualities. My thinking is it should go both ways. That's also putting a lot of pressure on people. Why can't people just fall in love, all those will follow. Motati: Unless one wants to be treated like an airhead trophy wife, then it's fine for a woman not to aspire to be successful and expect the poor man to do everything for her. I was thinking that we are living in a different century. | Dating Chat Room Similar Conversations |
