I'm.an older guy looking for younger women (Page 3)

cutep: coz it have any drawback in age gap relationship that means its wrong ...

simplyali: Can you clarify your meaning? What are you referring to as 'drawbacks'.

cutep: http://relationshipcounselingcenter.net/disadvantages-dating-someone-older-younger/

simplyali: I'm sorry but what you just sent me to talked about an adult being interested in a 'minor'. What is being referred to by the topics you keep speaking on. Are adults being involved with 'adults'. Outside of that key thing that seems to keep on for that article (And your thoughts).

States how if you don't have the same goals as the other person. You'll not work out in the relationship. I'm sorry to tell you but before you get involved with someone. It's best to be upfront about what you want in your future. When it comes to the person I am with, an older man. I am very upfront. It's best way to figure out compatibility.

You have to talk to the other person. Communicate things to make sure you want the same things. If not, then yes you will in fact be disappointed by the other. That's just how things go.

I've been disappointed by people I tried dating when I realized we don't want the same things. Men my age and others. It's just how it goes.

cutep: lol looks like u like oldman ..i hate girls like u ... u know whats ur problem u think love is just about fun .. happiness if u get little bit sadness from someone u guys this that relationship doesnt work anymore and u find another guy .. n now u r with oldman .. but can u say me u can love each other forever or he just loves u in bed ... n plzz dont answer me coz i dont want talk girls like u ... u have to feel shame ...

K9shewolf: Maddox u just mad and jealous because no woman wants,to be with you. There is no shame in being with an older man.


An older man knows,how to properly treat a woman with respect. With older men it's not always about sex for,some older men all they want is the companionship.
At,least,over here,young girls and women are,not forced into arranged marriages

simplyali: Well, I can honestly say he doesn't just love me in bed.

But I'm sorry, you don't want to hear from me. Just look down on me, and oddly yourself. Because I don't get why what other people are doing in their lives concerns you. Why put so much effort in condemning women and men trying to find love? The same thing you are searching for...Oh right!

You are in fact jealous of an older man seeking women around your age that you believe are more suited for you...and yet you can not find a relationship with one.

You can not keep a relationship with one! Did someone hurt you? Leave you for another man? From the way that last message of yours went on. It sounds a lot like that may have happen to you in the past.

Motati: Maddox22 calm down. I feel your pain and anger, but HATE is such a strong word. You cannot just hate a person for her personal choice. There are lots of young men who want to be with older women. Should they be hated? I don't think so.

The reason why the world is such an interesting place is because we are all different. You will be shocked to hear that what you think is right, other people will not agree with you, but it's your choice, we have to respect it.

Take a chill pill.

Motati: Earlier on somebody tried to explain to Maddox22 that young women does not mean young girls, the 8, 10, 12 year olds. As it happens in other countries, where the poor family gives away the daughter to the rich old man to marry, with the agreement that the old rich man will take care of the daughter's family.

It is most probably happening in his country hence he gets so upset.

bigmanleo:
Motati, it was MeetMe.com. She's 30 years old, but don't want anything from me other than my love. So right now we are just emailing each other and getting to know one another. I'll drop in from time to time to say hi and let you know how things are going. Hope your Christmas was good and have a Great Happy New Years..

Motati: Hi Bigmanleo that's great, I like the fact that you believe in true love. All the best my dear friend.

bigmanleo: Thank you my friend. I truly believe she is the one for me. She will even use her own money to come to me. I think I'll be leaving all of the dating sites I am in now. Good luck in finding your true mate.

Motati: Ooh! I envy you my dear! All the best.

bigmanleo: Thank all of you, but looks like I spoke too soon. We broke up and I am back to looking, but this time the age limit is from 40 to 65. Maybe I will have better luck. So I'm back. :-)

Motati: Hi Bigmanleo! That was quick.

Motati: I was here waiting for the wedding invitation.

Motati: Honestly I am inquisitive to know, why it ended so quick.

UnwiseWolfy: Sounds like an older woman took Maddoxs virginity and left.

iowagent1956: You think? Well, there's no accounting for taste.

Motati: Hopefully the experience was excellent, he will be able to apply it on the next lover/sex partner that he will get.

bigmanleo: She said she had the money to come to me and then when it got down to it she came up with that the bank manager stole all the money and left the country and she works at a bank and ended up with wanting me to pay her way from Russia to here. So I ended it. She lied to me.

bigmanleo: Motati: I answered your message hun.

Motati: Interesting! Shame man, she lied. That was terrible.

Motati: I wonder if it ever occurs to older men with the number of viagras that they will need to pop in to satisfy these young ladies. Just my barbecue point of view of course.

Motati: When on the other hand older women with young men you just lie there, they get busy. Nothing of yours needs to be hard, maybe dryness and there are lots of lubricants in the market that you can use. And guess what? These lubricants don't even affect your blood pressure.