Did Someone Break Your Heart? How Did You Heal?
pixeechikk: pixeechikk: Looking for a few stories, about romance and heartbreak. How did you meet? How did they hurt you? Did you leave them, or did they leave you, and why? Did you get over them, or just learned to live without them? Did you seek revenge, or did you just move forward in peace? Did you find a new love? Do you think you can be friends with your X? How did you get through and over the pain of the hear break?
Please share your story.
iowagent1956: My heart has been broken several times. I never sought revenge, some I was able to remain in contact with, someone I wanted nothing more to do with. In every case time healed my heart and I moved on.
Cr1Ss: Trying to get over a Heart break that i don't know how long it will take to Heal. We've been best friends before everything. So all this Chemistry and History, Everything that i have to let go of and watch it all fade away.. It Kills me. And they want to be friends, Sucks trying to be "Friends" with someone you loved so much for so long. They moved on now and their happy, while I'm still stuck in this place .. And its really hard for me. This person was my everything. The other piece of my heart you know? Not trying sound Emo/Suicidal because I'm not like that. But that feeling where u just don't wanna wake up anymore?
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iowagent1956: Cr1Ss, first learn to be happy with yourself. Learn that it's okay to be alone. Then you will be able to love that special someone for who they are and not fo what they bring to you. This may take time, but you will be able to move on.
pixeechikk: I understand your heart ache, and I know it will take time to heal. It is easy to say, be happy with yourself, but the pain of this break up will take a long time, being that you were with her for 8 years. I wanted to ask these questions and get input from others to help those like you heal, possibly quicker, than trying to do this on your own. I am hoping to get many ppl to respond for that reason... and share in the healing process.
calypso84: I shall focus on the biggest heartbreak in my life. It was my first love. We were both at the university.
1. He was a bartender in a bar I used to go to with a group of my friends.
2. We broke up because of his BFF that I happened to get to know finally after 2 years of our relationship. She didn't like me right from the start. That was the moment when our relationship went downhill. Even though before I met her, mine and my ex's connection was nearly fantastic, from that moment I turned into an enemy in his eyes.
3. We both decided to break up after I miscarried our child out of all that stress.
4. I got over him after a year.
5. Moving forward was far away from peaceful, but I didn't seek revenge. I was too weak at that time.
6. After that breakup I found a new love. Nonetheless, I'm single today.
7. Definitely not.
8. I just focused on myself and my own growth as a person. Studies, work, writing and sport helped me a lot.
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doglady090: Heartbreak is a step ahead of everyone else who havent feeled.., it will make you stronger and keep your emotions 70% less than it should
pixeechikk: The lie was probably worse than the porn site itself. Being able to trust someone 100% is what I think bonds a couple. It's a level of betrayal, that some just don't get. I hope you are ok now.
pixeechikk: Thank you for sharing, and I know exactly what you are going through. Loss is a loss, regardless of when and what happened. We all have that in common. Grief effects people in different ways, that is why I posted this. It is one of the subjects in our society that no one talks about, but I think it is important. I have said it before, our brain fully understands what is happening, but our heart does not. I hope you heal quickly.
pixeechikk: Another thing LoveFishing, stay strong and don't turn back. Once you made your decision to walk away, for your own benefit, there is no going back. It makes the break no easier, that you were the one that decided, to go your own way, to make yourself happy again. But my suggestion to anyone that has left a deceiptful partner, make a list of all they did and lied about, and any other negative things that were done. This will keep you strong when your mind starts to reminisce about the good times. When your heart starts to revert back to those memories, pull out the list, that caused the break in the first place.
andres30001: Time ! And learning to take care of your self! That’s the best medicine, loving your self is the way