Did Someone Break Your Heart? How Did You Heal? (Page 7)
Plumpcherry: I would say try the northern states, but you may come back addicted to something that would ruin your life, or not at all. But if you’re not attracted to drugs, lust, and conning games try the northern states. Be weary of folks though. That’s everywhere, but be weary.
I would say go out of state, but I think finding a soul mate is something that just fall apond you.
You have to be open too.
Searchonglostfrndask: In a perfect world without haters and sabatogers and paranoids lol! I would say yes a soul mate is supposed to just land on me lol! Only it isn't a perfect world and hasn't landed on me lol! Maybe one day ..Argh!, I'm almost 50 I guess I can wait another 50 (cries and laughs) lol!
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FunkyBiscuits82: Idk if I believe there is only one person who matches me. I figure there are many soulmates out there for me and probably for anyone else. We only need to find one of them. It's just not so easy to find that person, because it takes a good deal of time, patience, and trust to know one another on a soul level. I don't think a connection that deep has anything to do with nationality or any other superficial traits.
FunkyBiscuits82: One benefit to finding out your soulmate is in prison...you always know where he is.
FunkyBiscuits82: Searching, there are a lot of sabotagers, I agree! Haters too. Sometimes the hater or the sabotager can exist within the relationship or outside of it, but in either case there will be trouble to deal with. If attraction/love/trust (on all levels, I mean) can last through challenging times like that, then the relationship has a good chance of lasting forever.
Motati: It's sad Funky. I am however convinced that haters are sick sadists. They definitely hate themselves, they don't know any better. They also have a very low self esteem. What makes them happy is hurting other people. We live with those people.
FunkyBiscuits82: Motati, Yes, truly hateful people are just evil. However, when I said haters, I meant it in the slang term way to mean something along the lines of a trouble maker or negative person with bad intentions. Searching mentioned those kinds of haters and sabotagers, and I have met people like that who will try to harm relationships in some indirect or direct way.
Idk if they qualify as hateful people in the true sense, but it could be true. Eitherway, they are a nuisance to deal with. They are very good at causing problems for everyone around them.