Did Someone Break Your Heart? How Did You Heal? (Page 8) Fog Swept Glade: Maybe, idiots that pick each other over sensible people that ground them should be investigated, arrested, and convicted. Fog Swept Glade: It just seems like none of the people that died were my choice came to mind when that idiot finally left. Fog Swept Glade: I thinks it's tragic that anybody that can do a stupid human trick and disprove reality can have a woman. I think it's pathetic to force sensible people into death and poverty because others earned it. I think that people praising ingrates should be destroyed, not rewarded.  Searchonglostfrndask: I agree wine time heals all wounds* internally and externally ..then learn to deal with the fact someone sabotaged a persons life and the love of a person life agreed to destroy the person's heart * the winner takes it all * that's the way it is * it's to bad so sad . In time it will be time to move on .. (Edited by Searchonglostfrndask)  torresberta: Its always hard to get over someone who you loved but I go off by myself for sometime and when I come back I take the support of my friends and family to get by and go on with life.💔 Searchonglostfrndask: I guess it's just not that easy for me the way I lost him .. (Edited by Searchonglostfrndask)  bartek_talik: It wasn't easy as took me a year and a half but I had a good friend who I often hang out with so even if I am single and divorced person because of the broken heart it made me a stronger person and healed my wounds. I just now thinking of me what I want to do in life and I just enjoy life and have a laugh even if it is difficult because of this pandemic Covid19 and maybe someone good and loyal for a change will find me first instead I would look for someone.  Doctor_lonely: Took me 15 years and a lot of partners. Time is the only FDA approved medication for heartbreak. A lot of sex can be added as a supplement to the main course of treatment and that results in a better outcome as well as better management of the disease itself. lelo7082: I did not do that nor a lot of sex or partners I healed normally in my peace why should I use other people where I also being used? well at least for me I m okay now. and my single life with no partners but peace is great. Searchonglostfrndask: I'm not being rude .. when I say this to anyone .. I never wanted to be alone .. They told him lies about me.. he believed them .. I know it's time to move on .. why he didnt ask me if it was true and just believed them .. even if they say.... if you go to her door... she will make her pet alligator attack you .. why didnt he just ask me... if I go to your door will you send your pet alligator to attack me .. is that true .. I would had said .. nooo .. silly billy .. lol! .. I never wanted to be alone.. I know it's not anyone's choice to be alone .. I just truly feel if people over 20 & are alone not married & want to be .. They cant find the one .. their misplaced .. or sabatoged ...or both .... I dont want to be alone .. I want him to know like a friend can find out down the road because they were so close to let them know .. I can just hop skip jump to him to let him know ...I'm not a hop skip jump .. from him .. it's to expensive.. I hate being alone .. I was adopted no paperwork .. and I am sabatoged .. and I am alone .. & miss him very much . he was my best friend... I'm alone and hate it .. I love myself .. I take care of myself .. I hate being .. alone .. please anyone dont make sugestions ...without him .. il figure it all out in time .. for now alone and miserable ...just like sabatogers wanted & have my own male friend helping the sabatogers to me being alone .. Il get over it in time .. I go on date .. I talk to men.. they just aren't him . & not my type . I did a blog about example myself I love mustard LOVE ! I know Philadelphia loves mustard and I cant remember North Carolina or South Carolina barbecue sauce is made out of mustard and alot of recipes for meat include mustard . I often wonder .. if South Carolina North Carolina is my state compatable to me to bring a guy to say let's have a mustard dog .. I did a blog on that .. I often wonder to find a compatable state to find a compatable man .. I just dont know .. (Edited by Searchonglostfrndask)  gutz2122: i once read a research paper about how you can avoid heartbreak. Heartbreak comes when you think something is forever.. and then it leaves a void when it / they are gone. If everyday you say to a person you love... If I dont see you tommorrow ..know that i love you. Meaning anything could happen..and you should cherish the time you had with that given person..be it a parent, bf , spouse, child... there wont be a void..you've prepared yourself all along the way and you took each moment that you had..and made the best of it..Nothing..last forever. bartek_talik: I took me about 2 years to heal. I suffered deep depression because of it. I felt like I wanted to die. That how bad it was. However I kind of get rid of that thoughts instead by traveling constantly around Ireland on my days off work so I always tried to come tired after trips and not thinking too much just get to bed to sleep. Also I met old friend that I started hang out with often and he build my strength as I talk about it how my ex wife left me and broke my heart. That helped me a lot too. I also joined the gym at the time to put my all anger, pain and frustration to hard exercises sometimes boxing too. After while I notice that my body physics slightly changing because of the gym and I got some confidence boost I never had before as well so I continue exercises but at home now or outdoors sometimes if I have free time but now I do it because I enjoy it mostly not because I am angry. I am still single and looking for new fresh love to fill my wounded heart but I feel much better now. That is my true life story. yippeskippy: Zero contact is the best thing. Also focus on yourself. One thing that should not be forgotten is taking time to grieve. It's okay to cry and its okay to be angry. But don't let your anger get the best of you. Take time for self care, renew hobbies, talk to friends who are understanding. And if you have to, seek counseling. Depending on the type of relationship it was. In a normal relationship a break up could take a few months. You have to remember the person who broke up with you doesn't want you in their life. It's also not good to remain in a friendship with someone you were romantically linked to, unless you can deduce that the relationship became platonic. If either of you has feelings for the other, you have to be away from each other. Once they move on it will be painful to witness, so don't torture yourself. If you were in an abusive or narcissistic relationship, you really need to seek counseling. You may experience CPTSD for a long time. It's important to note...if you suspect someone of being a narcissist, get away from them. If you have to engage, do it for a short period of time and leave. Anything that you do is fuel for them to use against you. They take anything and everything and turn it around. They never take responsibility for their behavior, The more overt ones will never apologize or feel remorse. Everything will always be your fault. Above all don't let them know you think they are narcissistic. Letting them know will have them research the term to become better narcissists. After your first experience with a narcissist, and finding out more about this subject, there is only a 20% you might end up with another one. It will be difficult. You'll deal with ups and downs, but better days will come.   Cr1Ss: Got dumped on Cinco de Mayo..I blame myself, it was a long distance relationship an i made a promise to be with her someday... instead she’s happy now with someone else. And knowing that i caused that to happen.. Hurts so much having to think of how much of a screw up i am and wish to fix it somehow but it’s too late. I go through that Everyday. Her memories follows me everywhere i go. Wants to be friends but we act more like strangers now. I had a complicated life an tried to fix it to be with her, To have a Future together.. instead I wake up Everyday Hating myself, Blaming myself... But ya that’s me right now, thought i should brag... so ya long distance relationships sucks... it’s always the long distance relationships 😔 gutz2122: I feel you Cr1Ss.. i had same happen... its so important to have that daily interaction in person and touch.. Sorry for your pain brotha.. but dust yourself off and know that someone out there needs you.. and its just not in the cards to be her. Go get whats yours.. and let her live her life | Dating Chat Room Similar Conversations |
