What are you looking for in a man?

Motati
Motati: Women are forever expected to behave in a certain manner or dress in a particular way to attract men. I just want to know from women what are you exactly looking for in a man, the type of man who will attract you, character, personality and looks.

From men do you see it important to take trouble to genuinely impress women with your looks and behaviour?
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kittybobo34
kittybobo34: Tough question for me, Looks arent as important to me as attitude, especially about sex. I am a bit conflicted about sex. So describing my perfect man would be describing someone who doesnt exist.
Women like men are attracted to certain traits, cant help that. But, that just opens the door a little. Honesty, and compassion is what shines through for me. That also makes it easier to see if this other person is right for me.
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Motati
Motati: S true, it would be difficult to be in a relationship with a selfish, inconsiderate good looking man.
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kittybobo34
kittybobo34: lol in other words,,,, Duuuhhh
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smithjessicak
smithjessicak: I look for a guy who can hold a conversation and has a cute smile. Pretty much it right now
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kittybobo34
kittybobo34: lol wow, the rashness of youth. Someday after you've battled a few relationships, you tend to get pickier
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smithjessicak
smithjessicak: Kittybobo you aren't much older than me haha
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kittybobo34
kittybobo34: ok guess I have a certain amount of distrust perkolating here
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Motati
Motati: Smith yes holding a conversation is great.
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Motati
Motati: Hahahahahahaha! True, young people are far smarter these day. I think even looks and intelligence will be included if you are still considering offsprings.
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Motati
Motati: A loving, considerate, caring man, can be really sexy.
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Motati
Motati: A great cook will be nice too.
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kittybobo34
kittybobo34: I think having a common sense of humor, and of course the same sexual ballpark would be necessary. Wouldnt want any part of that 50 shades of gray guy, even though he is cute

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Motati
Motati: men your suggestions will be highly appreciated.
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henryoh2
henryoh2: I have lived my adult male life practicing love and kindness . . . I enjoy being a lustfull animal AND a civilized gentle man.
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Motati
Motati: Thanks Henry! In simple and detailed terms ............? Leave out the lustful, that one I think is clear.
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iowagent1956
iowagent1956: I don't mean to speak for women, but through personal observation I'd say the number one thing that attracts a woman to a man is confidence, whether real or staged. I have seen women fall over themselves to draw the attention of some of the most rude, boorish and narrow minded men. All of whom had one thing in common - self confidence. As far back as adolescence I tried to present myself as a humorous, sensitive and intelligent individual. But I lacked that key ingredient, self confidence. And did I ever pay the price!
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Motati
Motati: There is an element of truth in what you are saying Iowa, but as we age I think most of us are attracted by kindness, sensitive and intelligence. Self confidence is important but not on top of the list. There is a thin line between self confidence and arrogance which can be confusing sometimes.
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Motati
Motati: Come to think of it Iowa you have the right qualities for a good man, unless you prefer them young.
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iowagent1956
iowagent1956: No, I like to keep within a reasonable proximity of my own age.

I agree with you, Motati, self confidence AND arrogance play a more significant role with much younger people. In fact, as I have aged my self confidence has grown. Part of that is because i no longer crave acceptance nor fear rejection. The other part is I've learned to like who I've become.

Anyway, Motati, thank you for your kind words.
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Motati
Motati: You are welcome!
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Motati
Motati: Often we hear things like I like a slim, busty or chubby woman,short or tall woman. I like a blond, brunette or red hair girl. And once the man's mind is set on what they want in a woman they don't compromise. Are women particular with a guy's height, body, tattoos, his wallet, intelligence or any other thing or they are just happy to be approached by any available man?
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Motati
Motati: One gentleman was in a lady's office, The lady was sitting behind her desk. This man started flirting with the woman. She played along. Then the man said to the woman stand let me see if I will like you to be my girlfriend.

The woman got furious and said to the man who said I am interested in you. Actually you stand up, let me see if I am interested in you, and put your cock on the desk to see if I like it.
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iowagent1956
iowagent1956: He was no gentleman.

Ask 100 people what they want in a woman/man, you'll get 100 different answers. We all want to be appreciated, loved, respected. To me the formula is easy. Want to be loved? Be lovable. Want to be respected? Be respectable.
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kittybobo34
kittybobo34: Actually there was an experiment regarding all mammals, and it was discovered that they become associated to the opposite sex at a very early age. So for any man or woman there was someone in their life that became the idea for that person. Often its someone that looks like a parent or sibling. I know I am attracted to men that are like my brother was in his earlier years.
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iowagent1956
iowagent1956: Interesting, Kitty! I know I'm attracted to sensitive, intelligent women with a well developed sense of humor. I'm really not sure who my role models were.
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