Ladies, I got one question... Will you date me? (Page 2) Searchonglostfrndask: I think it's looks and a good attitude you ca~ look good and still not be able to date looks and good attitude is what makes it breaks a date ..Example ... If your not compatable to someone .....If you meet someone that likes the beach and you take them out to the beach and say ...I hate the beach ..You are so stupid to like the beach ... and leave ... Or someone asks a person did you graduate high school and the person replies no and the person says you did not graduate high school *wow* Doesn't matter how good a person looks it will never help them get a date ... Always meet in public places and invite them to a movie or dinner or both There is a girl out there compatable to you and adores all about you she will meet you and go on a date with yoUand be ready to fall in love with you it's just so difficult to find the one.. Alt of men do this too don't know if you do this ... They say I never can meet a girl ..And there is a girl not to pretty and in love with you and clings to you most men say nah I don't want her she is a clinger..I don't want her she calls to much .…I don't want her she flirts with me to much ..Make sure you have not already…met her ..You just thinks she's a clinger ...  Live_By_Common_Sense: I definetly do not want a clinger in to my life. Especially if i am not attracted to them. I want someone I can cherish with knowing that I wont be dissapointed in the relationship on the long run. I am not promiscous, but I surely do have promiscious thoughts. I keep my hopes alive that one day I will meet the right one. But than again, life dont give me the one I want. So I feel like either I have to play the game to get my pleasures. I dont want to play that game because I know it does not end up well. (Edited by Live_By_Common_Sense) Searchonglostfrndask: She is out there somewhere maybe one day throw a big party invite all your friends to invite all their friends.. and everyone brings chips salsa soda and ice ... Live_By_Common_Sense: Almost everyday I come back to wireclub forum and see if anyone new post to my forum. I guess nobody wants to chat to this lonely guy. I just want at-least one female to cherish in my life, and she has to be up to my standards. Not to high, and never to low. Just average or above.  Motati: Hi Secret-Asian, sorry you feel like that. The right lady will come at the right time hang in there.  guy54: Many average looking people are generally good looking too if you dont compare them to the models you see in magazines and tv. Even many models you see now have been average before they were famous. If you want a model material girl, you have to be willing to pay the price too - Meet her expectations, constantly deal with insecurities of her cheating on you, time/schedules will be different, you may have to sacrifice your work for hers,she may be dominant in the relationship etc It is best to find a girl that you are attracted enough to date and is also aligned with your values, beliefs, and is generally a decent human being. (Edited by guy54) Live_By_Common_Sense: guy54 So from translating your explanation to a simpler term. Be a simp. I gotcha. Thanks for your input.  kennyray311: I have found that if you are honest with yourself first, it is easy to be honest with everyone else. discover your own personal boundaries. make sure you understand them and then do not disobey those boundaries. In the end, you will meet another person who aligns with your needs and personality. It is important to remember that if you want a meaningful relationship you will need to meet that persons needs and respect their boundaries. Here is a nugget from my dad, "It isn't 50-50, it is 100-100" . All the time! Live_By_Common_Sense: Thank you Kennyray311. I do understand that honesty is a good key to keep your relationship with your surroundings in good terms. But right now, I am trying find some female that would just like to be friends. Nothing more. If its a relationship, than the female have to be up to par to be in that part of the deal. (Edited by Live_By_Common_Sense) kennyray311: Cool. I understand. So don't spend all your time and energy looking for a woman to be your friend. Just go out in public. Really try to relate with other humans. If you put in the effort, you will find the person that fits. Lower your energy level. | Dating Chat Room 1 Person Chatting Similar Conversations |
