could you be ugly and Attractive? lisa99hunter: Looks are a subjective opinion. So nobody IS ugly or Is whatever Bering attractive is different I think and not so subjective because attraction has a huge spectrum with inn it self  (Post deleted by Fog Swept Glade )  Nasty Boy: Yes, one can be ugly and attractive, but you'd need other supporting traits. If the person had the necessary resolve and application I would say intelligence would make your more attractive. If a person lacked those things then greater intelligence might be a torment and impair attraction. If a person has no other supportive traits, beauty would be more valuable in my opinion simply because it is more effective when standing alone.  Njlatino74: "beauty" is totally subjective. And attractive people has not the be beautiful, is not a general rule. I like some not-so- beautiful girls but I can't describe what is it, is just the nature of them  Motati: It will be interesting to know what attracts most men, if you have to choose between beauty with lack of intelligence or not so pretty with intelligence, what will be your choice. Not talking about one night stand, I am talking about serious relationship. Njlatino74: There is not a specific combination. Not a receipt. You like/love someone just because. . To love you, I don't need a reason. Nasty Boy: http://static3.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20110507013628/avenchat/images/a/aa/Brian_peppers1.jpg I for one am classically handsome.   Plumpcherry: It depends on the person you are attracted to. Do their eyes see you as you see them? Or hoe others see you which doesn’t count if it’s not for you and it’s against you. Cygnus X: Ugly and attractive are polar opposites by definition. Like Pete Davidson and Kate Beckinsale.  torresberta: I think it's possible they could be attractive and have a real ugly personality or vice/versa! Greyfeather: Each sees beauty according to his desires or orientations There is mental beauty, physical beauty and power There are standards of beauty that societies and their culture create.. There is also a beauty that is beneficial and there is one that is neither beneficial nor harmful The beauty of useful and useless arts Where beauty is conditional at times and times, it is not conditional Some look for certain features in the shape of the nose, body, and eye color As for others, beauty is the beauty of morals.. Different tastes are what makes life so diverse The ugly person who has a beautiful smile is not really ugly Sometimes a pretty face is ugly if it is hateful to some So beauty is varied according to tastes..  jeffkaspar74: Yes.. I khnow s0me women that are 9.5 or 10's.. gorgeous.. wanna go out withme... but they are so rude i ould never conisder dagting them. evey.r.. Motati: So true. I however know most men who will love to be in the presence of women like that because they are pretty and sexy. jeffkaspar74: @motati. Personally I'd rather be around people that spread love and joy in great supply. There is a difference between a woman who is pretty vs beautiful imho.. pretty women have all the physical aspects and perfect proportions that are attractive and alluring, but I only consider a woman to be beautiful if they have that inner beauty that radiates inside out. A beautiful woman may not have the perfect figure or cheekbones or brows..... but when she smiles it lights up the darkest room and fills everyone around her with joy.. a pretty person with a horrible self-righteous attitude... I don't even wanna be around. WHlSKY: It's possible to be first unattracted to someone physically and after getting to know them better you find attractive qualities or mannerisms. Then their physical attributes are heightened and you find endearing features. And vice versa. Possible to find someone very physically attractive and become unattracted due to an encounter/event that brings up qualities that weren't noticed initially. (Edited by WHlSKY) yippeskippy: Well you'd have to first define what's ugly. Ugly is subjective. A person can initially look unappealing and fix themselves up to look better. Then they become attractive to you. There was a story about an 'ugly duckling' who turned into a beautiful swan. Features aside though, being superficial isn't good. It's all in how one presents oneself. Attractiveness isn't just physical. Confidence, Intellect and Humor is attractive. Important thing is that the person loves themselves enough that they don't need to be validated by the attractive 'label' which is a social construct of the society you live in. In some areas people enjoy dressing up, other areas enjoy the natural look, etc. One should always be attractive to oneself ...others may come to find you attractive and others wont...some come with good or bad intentions and its wise to know the difference.  LoisS: What you find and see as attractive might not be what another person sees. Personally, if I think you are attractive with qualities I like, it wouldnt really matter what anyone else thinks about it. You can be "unfortunate looking" to some and have a good attitude and nice personality (that isnt overly toxic) which can be an attractive quality to people. You can be "gorgeous looking" to some yet have a shitty attitude and terrible personality (self absorbed and righteousness with every word you speak, lets not forget youre boring as paint drying) and that is an attractive quality to people. | Education Chat Room Similar Conversations |
