Masturbation: Beyond vicarious lust and recreational relase & relief (Page 5)
jonah_kyle: That sounds exhilarating, Meg. The passions and sparks it brings makes it so explosive at times.
straywlf: Well there is a difference between getting fingered and fingerings yourself. On is masterbation and the other is foreplay of sorts.
Masterbation can be great and everyone has different reasons and ways of self pleasure.
Also most everyone does it. Even if they don't admit it.
jonah_kyle: It's a shame in a way that masturbation has gotten a bad rap, particularly among the older generation who maintains the shame about the activity. The millennials and Gen Z people should be glad that it is essentially normalized and even socialized as a casual event in a group, or at least couple, setting, and not lambasted as an activity of both shame and defeat.