Is sex ever a hobby? (Page 2) StartingOver56: Heck, of sex is a hobby, then I’m kinda short on hobbies. Laugh, it’s been 5 years, PTSD sucks , but it’s not a hobby. 🤣  Jonah_Kyle: Sex is something that can be experienced in many ways with different levels of emotional and physical needs. There is absolutely nothing wrong with any aspect of sexyal activity, and no matter which consensual adult, or adults, whom you share it with, nor the actual fetshes involved. Candles, sensual skin creams, bathwater, even porn can help you, or an online phone friend to share passion with. Splurge during your week off. But, like anything else in life, it must be enjoyed without obsession. Masturbating once or twice a day is not abnormal, for instance, but not constantly to the point of affecting your job and other commitments. And if you involve others, emotions WILL come into play at some point, which involve complications in some cases involving non-sexual relationships. To that end, many people start sexual-only relationships but find one of the participants becoming emotionally and even spiritually attached, while the other remains his/her separation of acts vs feelings. But in general, it sounds as if you are more needful of human connection, not just sex, by your addressing sexual needs in accordance with your work schedule. If you can take a week off work, I suggest you do so and take the week off and concentrate on you true desires for yourself. (Edited by Jonah_Kyle) Jonah_Kyle: Most men would have sex with most women on Wire, while nearly zero women would have sex with any men on Wire; in fact, more women would hook up with other women than men here. It's like real life, only digital.  (Post deleted by staff )  AretoNyx: I wouldn't mind safe sex with many men and possibly women but no cheating here is desired. I am gray asexual so not many would understand I am not turned on by physical appearances. I have a husband and two kids. It seems my husband's libido / sex drive has slowed and mine has increased with age. Now I do like sex itself and have had many partners in my life. Though some times it just seems easier to masturbate. Kinda wish I could help many out but also no cheating. Some are more into voyeurism and exhibitionists stuffs. I get nothing out of that. So that is how it is at the moment. I am an odd one I guess. StartingOver56: I’m totally at the chatting for satisfaction point. Ptsd has kicked my buy and it’s just safe and a huge turn on to be able to share all with another. AretoNyx: I have been seeing in the lifestyles forums section that many are into swinging, sex parties, bdsm, and kink of sorts. Well in wire club I guess every where in forum, and all over the internet everywhere even on popular social networks there is going to be mentioned something. I even find people trying to make playlists on yt. Some say degenerates are the only types into all that but if it isn't porn ...any how I made playlists on sex education for adults to use. Some ways youth can be taught safety for self preservation and care, but some things may still be considered grooming even if stuff exists in the world to be careful of. Sex is still very taboo to have discussion among adults in general. Though some places on this planet it is even against the law to hold hands on a date I hear. I hope everyone has a good time and a good day. StartingOver56: Like I said, being single, divorced and it’s a long story, but PTSD and emotions are not balancing, but I’m well, happy, understand that I love a different way and always did. I just wasn’t ready or needed to continue being married and I just came home 15 years ago different. Lifestyles? Swinging? I’m not sure what others or what I am I guess, but making friends with another is sure better than saying I love you , and I don’t even know if it’s true. I’m very content with me, and maybe a good friend or chat partner will help or just be how I live. I’m ok with me for now AretoNyx: I hope you find time to chat like you desire with some one. I don't have much time personally with work and family. I chat with many at work in retail but no time for any in depth conversations. iswimwithsirens: I really do love it, but I’m just starting to explore the journey of the lifestyle. I’m very giving-centered and very oral-centered, though, so I’d happily eat someone out merely for the joy and satisfaction of bringing them to a climax and making them feel good. I’m in Southern Utah, and I’d love to help out any and all women who need that release. iswimwithsirens: Having said that, I don’t want or seek sexual intercourse with someone unless I know there is a mutual attraction. Not sure if that’s weird to be so free with one thing but so reserved with the other, but I think that’s just how I process intimacy. | hobbies Chat Room Similar Conversations |
