finding a D/s BDSM room

Xhale
Xhale: i'm trying to find a BDSM room but it is becoming harder and harder to do so on wireclub, so i figured what about whenever we find a D/s, BDSM room, we copy and paste it into this conversation so we can come back and find one when we want it...
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Mountain Joe
Mountain Joe: Almost any day, almost any hour, there is one or more chat rooms open that are oriented to D/s or BDSM lifestyles. Most participants of the lifestyle are aware of this and recognize the rooms. Perhaps participation is what is needed, not criticism ....what do you think?
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Mountain Joe
Mountain Joe: Afterthought ......open your own room.
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shark angel
shark angel: as a Mistress i agree it's hard to find a room like we used to a year ago there was lots of rooms and lots of members but we have all scattered
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merc4711ie
merc4711ie: i would be very interested in chatting to a domminent woman,or better still a Mistress.
I have enjoyed command and control in the past and would like to experience it again
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WOLF KING VOLTAX
WOLF KING VOLTAX: It is fairly easy. Just look at the rooms that Doms and subs you know are in. Chances are, they are in a D/s themed room.
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Mountain Joe
Mountain Joe: As I write this a room titled "BDSM Chatroom" is open and apparently very popular and listed near the top of the room list. It is new to me, but I am kinda out of the loop. Most all the occupants were names new to me also. Anyway, how can you miss that room name?
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Mountain Joe
Mountain Joe: Is it jut me or is the entire D/s community experiencing a vast change?
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WOLF KING VOLTAX
WOLF KING VOLTAX: Alot of those rooms are not D/s based. They are fetish based. Just a bunch of people looking for cybersex. The only real way to know is if you are friends with and actual Dom/sub and they can vouch for the authenticity of the room nature.
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Mountain Joe
Mountain Joe: Well said Voltax ..... I have long realized that to be the case. Contributing problems though is that many of the true D/s practitioners condone and support those who are merely seeking the cyber sex and the immature conduct. Oh well, guess that is why I am out of the loop.Sorry, getting away from the thread of the conversation.
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WOLF KING VOLTAX
WOLF KING VOLTAX: I know of about 5 rooms. All ran by Doms/subs and the rules of D/s are enforced on anyone who enters. Whether they are Dom/subs or not, they are expected to uphold our rules of conduct. Submissive Garden. Submissive Cafe, Submissive World(my personal room) Blackrose Tavern Gorean, and D's World. All are ran by Dom/subs and everyone who enters is required to show the proper respect that We/we are required by Our/our community.
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Mountain Joe
Mountain Joe: hmmmm, thought we were of like minds Voltax, but ......oh well nuff said.
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shark angel
shark angel: well the d's community center is open but rules apply there as well just be respectful to all and you are respected back it's simple to do why make it diffucult
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Mountain Joe
Mountain Joe: Exactly my point Corin, thank you for supporting my contention that it is a "D/s Community Room" not a zoo, so simple to apply the standard accepted code of conduct signed by a few of us, but recognized by most D/s lifestyle practitioners. Why confuse it with childish and foolish conduct that would better be performed in a comic book chat room?
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WOLF KING VOLTAX
WOLF KING VOLTAX: It is actually getting to where when D/s rooms are opened, the rooms fill up with mostly members of the D/s community. It's nice to see actually. And people who are interested. One of my friends follows me in all the time curious and asking questions. It's a good thing. I just wish more of the Doms would actually follow the codes of conduct like they are supposed to.
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Mountain Joe
Mountain Joe: Well said Voltax, what you describe is as it should be, but I wonder, in addition to encouraging your friend to ask questions and learn about the life ....do you condone and/or encourage those who enter YOUR room to behave like foolish children? Seems I have left your room a time or two in disgust at what was going on. Of course ...your room your rules ....but ....it is up to the Dom/mes of our community to clean up our act and regain our pride and dignity.
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WOLF KING VOLTAX
WOLF KING VOLTAX: I make everyone behave in My room the Submissive World. The other rooms I am a mod in I don't always pay attention to. Especially if My sub is online cause I like to give her 1-on-1 attention. Last night I spent the entire night in a D/s room just to let people know a mod was there, but as long as nobody was being nasty, I ignored it till my sub went to sleep. Alot of the Doms and sub like to roleplay, it's very childish, but at least they aren't being disrespectful to one another. To each his own I guess. But I'm still quick to step in if it turns nasty. For the most part I encourage freedom. Even if they are being childish.
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Mountain Joe
Mountain Joe: "FI will or the most part I encourage freedom. Even if they are being childish. "
I will comment on that in the other forum
Eulogy to a Lifestyle ....we have gone beyond the thread of this discussion
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sirddprincess
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Faxi999
Faxi999: I started a new bdsm room, people should come on in.
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emmysom
emmysom: I am a findom and I see what everyone is talking about. Even the sites that are dedicated to are low on members. Maybe it just isn't what people thought , maybe it was a trend , and the people who are into it and born to be have , i don't know where they have all gone. I am looking for new pets and decent ones are no where to be found. others though are a dime a dozen.
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tiffy92
tiffy92: A lot of the rooms devoted to this lifestyle seem to come and go on a regular basis. I'm a "switch". Usually I "top" with my GF and "bottom" with the BF. A lot of people seem to also have some unusual ideas about stuff, thinking that it is all about spanking or humiliation or hanging from the ceiling. It is more (to me, anyway) about trust and sharing and mutual pleasure and letting go and enjoying. But, what do I know?
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Azmendias
Azmendias: Or you could join an outside site specifically for roleplaying http://cosmosrp.com i know kinks allowed because i own the place lol. also accomodates any creative writer or artistes
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xX Tinkerbell Xx
xX Tinkerbell Xx: Chatroom: No Bs Bdsm You are all welcome here, whether you are just looking for RP, looking for a relationship, looking for good chat with like minded people, stop on by! All are welcome
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Cool ocean breeze
Cool ocean breeze: HI I'm Amy a friend told me about this site just before I already met some friends from aol.....
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saragracedoud2003
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