Why do men find married woman appealing (Page 4) (Post deleted by staff )  straywlf: Yippeskippy it's women cheating on me also. But is not always cheating. Some are open relationships, some are attractions that are not followed up on. These forums tend to drift away from the original question. Why do men find married women attractive. I find married women more attractive because they have proven to be great at what it takes to have a relationship. Even if its isolated to the sexual relationship. Its still the attraction that is in question. Whether anyone follows up on it is up to the individual. Personal choices is some we all have the right to. (Post deleted by staff ) yippeskippy: well yeah...that's the 'women cheating on good man'...not sure where the two way is here  thanks for agreeing with me Open relationships don't count...if both partners agree. They are polyamorous, not monogamous. Polyamories do whatever tf they want. I don't care about that. Yes there are personal choices as everyone is an adult and they must deal with the consequences of such choices. And yes if a good man wants to be monogamous and his woman marries him and agrees, she's stupid and a cheater, and I stand by that statement. The same goes for married men. Don't forget these are also human beings who loved their partners and who trusted them. For anyone to call me judgmental in caring about the feelings of another human being, all that tells me is you're heartless c****!!. Now since I'm not here on a high horse, I'd like to also point out the drawbacks to monogamy...sadly monogamy isn't exactly perennial. It's one 'relationship' at a time these days. People are simply not to devoted to one person. There are plenty who claim monogamy but they are dissatisfied, bored, selfish, ingrates who also use excuses or start fights to be with someone else. In both sexes, people are simply not 'strong' enough to be with one person. They're weak af That takes an unconditional love that goes beyond the mere 'attractiveness'.. How can you find another woman attractive because she's married to another man that she's making mad love to every single night and not position yourselves to find you're own damn woman to appreciate for yourself?   cutenancy76: I think Yip Makes a very good point. When does not judging become condoning one person hurting another? Seeing a married woman, or man, as attractive is not the same as an extra marital affair. If the person who is being cheated on is profoundly, maybe permanently scarred by the betrayed trust, doesn't’ the cheater, AND the other person in the affair, deserve condemnation? Of course each situation is different. How about the person in a marriage who is mentally or physically abused, cannot leave, and needs someone who will give them emotional, and yes, physical sexual support and love? If you get the chance, I recommend reading novels by Graham Greene. He explored this gray area. Unfortunately I read recently that he also had numerous affairs while married. I feel more confused than when I started this message! Ha ha. Love you all. wacouple64: Well there are different levels we are talking about here... the post was started about other men finding married woman attractive or appealing.. and that comes in different forms i mean,, from a guy fantasizing about someone married or looking at her in a sexaul way doesnt always mean he would act on it in real life... i am a perfect example i find a good looking woman very attractive and have the thoughts of thinking of her is exciting but in no time in my 22 yr marriage would i ever step out... i was asking what the interest does to a man about a married woman... not in the Dogs who would just do her just to do her simontemok: Lets get back on subject:- Why do men find married woman appealing.......Answer is I find all women appealing........at any opportunity I will try my hand but only with married women.....for one thing I only have unprotected sex, therefore if she gets pregnant no harm done the husband raises my beautiful baby. (Post deleted by lgs1013 )  TheXCepsion: so many reasons, but why can't We all agree on the basic one? A married Woman can just go home after a sexual encounter same as a Married Man and just enjoy what it was...SEX cutenancy76: I agree with you completely TheXCeption. Time for women to stop having to hide their desires. TheXCepsion: I like how You think Nancy...No reason at all, be Yourself and Please Yourself first and foremost  gbsagreg: We want what cant have. The thrill of the hunt. Its like having filet mignon, you get the best part without all the tough parts. Hell lets be honest we like women that are single, married, divorced, widowed, you get the idea
(Post deleted by lgs1013 ) (Post deleted by lgs1013 )  (Post deleted by happygo5729 )  Jonah_Kyle: I have a take on it that seems different. It's not about the thrill of cheating, but some men would find that they have the best of all worlds. They essentially have sex with someone that, by definition from circumstance, can easily keep the barrier in place against non-sexual dating that they might have to do with regular non-involved women. In addition, men feel they don't have to be romantic, and take less precautions such as condoms, and finally, the man is the one who can walk away cold, while the woman who wants to end the affair would be more likely exposed. All in all, not worth it to me as a potential cheating partner. Possibly I could do a vacation hookup with a married woman away from home, as the dynamics are much different, but not a constant involvement. |
