AAAARRRRRGH! I HATE getting hit on in here!

OCD_OCD: Puhleeze, puhleeze, all desperate men whether they are from Canada, the US or the Middle East need to find a way to connect with desperate females other than simply trolling through names and besieging women with their PM's that say "Hello, Dear" or "Can we talk".

It's making me a little cranky.

I was here: Change you messaging options to "friends only" . That is what I did and I love it. If a non friend wants to talk to me bad enough, they will send a friend request and I may or may not reply with a message. Kinda depends on their profile. I have found though that the pervs don't even bother with a friend request. It has worked fantastic for me.

OCD_OCD: OMG! Thank you! I thought the age and photo would be a deterrent, but...nope.

I was here: If you don't like it, you can always go back to "anyone can message me".

OCD_OCD: I'm sure I'll like it. LOL

Hyenablood: yes I have been there ocd, mostly from men from the middle east. Social media is the qickest way for guys to meet girls. unfortantly for us ladies, we are subject to unwanted hits. Similer to how women in bars are hit on by gross guys or idiots. (Not that all guys are gross or idiots )
This is the way of the mating/courting game, if one party wants company then they have to go looking for the other party, even if some of the other party doesn't want to be courted or talked to in that way.

Its the change we all take when we enter online chatting sites like this one, the best we can do is enter the appropritae data and try to 'nicely' tell unwanted suitors to 'buzz' off.

OCD_OCD: I didn't want to sound creepish, but most of the men are from the Middle East. LOL

I need a "No Hook-up's" sign around my neck. You'd think with a face like my photo, it wouldn't be a problem. There seem to be enough females out there willing to "bear it all" in their photos that you'd think they'd stay busy elsewhere.

Hyenablood: well the middle east guys are looking for a girlfrind/future wife, I think that in their culture, the guy has a few years freedom, then is expected to settle down into marriage. I feel sorry for some of them who don't want it, but most are content with the way their parents/society expect of them.

OCD_OCD: Why do they have to look for women online? Most of them seem to want to chat about sex. That's absolutely pointless and stupid to me.

davidk14: .

I just got hit on by a 31 year old woman. I actually asked her why she was hitting on a man 27 years her senior. Will let you know if or when I get a response.

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Hoodlum Forester: DAVID gets hit on and I don't!?!

This place Blows!

OCD_OCD: Seriously, there needs to be some sort of obvious notation that you're all wired up and nowhere to go. Something like a giant flashing light so that we can stay away from you. LOL

Edit: Uh, not you, David or Hoodlum in particular...I meant "those guys"...

theincredibleskulk: *hits on hoodlum with a baseball bat*

Hoodlum Forester: It's my lack of ethics, morality and personal hygiene, isn't it?

I was here: LOL...David it is because you are a gold star member She thinks you are her next sugar daddy.

davidk14: .

Hey, a gentle breeze through a window is usually the only 'hits' I get lately.

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OCD_OCD: It's probably something to do with your name, Hoodlum. Reminds me of "hood rats". LOL

Hoodlum Forester: Do I LOOK like a hood rat? I live in Amish country for crying out loud!

OCD_OCD: Ha-ha-ha! I see a nose and half of one eyeball. It's hard to tell from here. My glasses are pretty thick.

Hoodlum Forester: I have other genetically-altered photos around somewhere...

Comrade_: OCD...I didn't know you were female, I never checked your profile before

Hoodlum Forester: Otherwise he would have hit on you...

Comrade_: ...coming to think about it..the monkey dp is suddenly appearing attractive

Hoodlum Forester: Anyone with such a homely picture must be extremely attractive!

Comrade_: the twinkle in the right eye and the pout.

Hoodlum Forester: Yes, yes, I MUST hit on her!