Love...Does it exist? Dixie57: Here in this complex world of modern technology and all...we still love from within our hearts. We can buy virtually anything we need without ever goin out of our homes. But to satisfy the need to love ...do we simply fall in love with a person we type to...one we may never meet or does the old fashioned courting someone still exist. Is it possible even to believe such love is even out there in a world that's so busy tryin to survive. Divorce is now somethin most have been through not to mention single parenting. Maybe I'm naive but I know love in whatever kind is better then no love at all. Love one another is how I was brought up. Love was not supposed to hurt...it was in my opinion to light up ones soul.    RUBY: Many say I love you all the time but do they really know the meaning of it? there's dif kind of love we love our partner in a way..our kids in another friends another kind of love honestly when comes to love I don't believe in it anymore I think it's just a thing that lasts for awhile not like before love lasted a life time when i love i mean it and i'd do anything for that person I'm a passionate romantic person when comes to love give my heart fully  AlwayzHope: Love is....  Patient~~~Kind~~~Not Boastful~~~Not Proud~~~Does not dishonor others~~~Not self seeking~~~Nor easily angered~~~Keeps no records of wrongs~~~Delights in truth, not evil~~~Alwayz protects, trusts, hopes, preserves~~~ Never fails...This is whatLOVE is Ma Sweet Beautiful Lady Dixie YouTube  Tears from Heaven: I feel about love the same way Ruby does...when i love someone i give it my all with my whole heart and soul....and when i truly love someone it is for a lifetime not for a short while in time  Aura: I see love more as a force of nature. It's neutral, able to both heal and hurt. And the more you love someone the more they can hurt you. I don't think love ever really leaves even if the situation becomes unlivable. In a romantic relationship, love alone is not enough, but without it there's nothing. The beauty of life is that if you allow it, you will find a new love. And with it, second chances. Dixie57: Awww ya'll ty kindly for what can I say LOVE from those who really know .....from my I LOVE YA'LL ....REAL TRUE AND BLESSED  calybonos: ...and most importantly, first agree upon a safe word. Just avoid ones like: More! Harder! Yes!  LuvMyself: The words " I Love U " these days is thrown around like a hello or a goodbye... The true meaning of it has lost its power...  I can honestly say i stick by the saying..." Its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all..." We love in our own way  do whatever it takes to hold on to that kinda love that makes happy temporarily cause i truly believe that nothing lasts forever.....So love yourself first in order to fully be able to love someone else....   Thats where the meaning of my "ID" name comes in... LolllllCause in life you always get what you give...  harlett anathema: that's not always...true...that in life you always get what you give....there are those who can resent you for merely being the person you are...that type of person is not alone nor idle at the kind of work... having sex with anyone when so ever,is what makes someone vulnerable... loving whom ever you will.. because it feels good to you...is invigorating....not having expectations of receiving depth less amounts of,respect,affections...from whom your freely loving..is liberating... has anyone noticed.. were not doubting our own capacity too love..or it's genuineness..were doubting being able too detect.. then measure to be sure of the love we receive or are receiving.. from who we are not...is.. were then putting that # on scale of sorts.. our reactions along with our behavior with in our relationships determine how long a kinship,best friends with benefits..or were lovers lasts..after the blush from the bloom of us has faded,and our lives moved on wards in different directions... (Edited by harlett anathema) LuvMyself: Harlett you make a good point but i believe this topic is a lil' touchy depending on our experiences of life and what one has endured...That is why we all have a diff point of view when it comes to love... harlett anathema: sometimes.. we have these expectations...we'll receive this that the other....or. that someone else will always remain and be on the same page as we are....we are all relentlessly evolving...it's takes work and dedication from both parties too keep the relationship together through thin and murky times... it's a fact of life that we have to come to terms with relationships that have split apart.. we have too get over & move on from.. it doesn't do anyone any good...... too cry over,but this that the other for more then a few days... more than that is the beginning of punishing yourself...and digging a hole for yourself.. that can bury you for life...why do yourself like ..when there is someone else... waiting too run into you... (Edited by harlett anathema) harlett anathema: @LuvMyself.....I didn't mean to sound as if i was devaluing Your opinion...I was actually adding to it.. or so i thought..perhaps you know of few folks,who keep falling prey to same traps.. for the same ole sweet nothings... etc etc etc... then feel burned too crisp.. LuvMyself: Yep totally agree there...I always say..." A healthy mind comes along with a good heart..." No need to do self-destruction...Poison your mind with negativity... We sometimes can be our biggest manipulator....  As they say it all begins with" YOU " and your inner strength.... Your ability to set yourself free  and to learn to love again... We learn from our mistakes and just try to move on .... LuvMyself: Never even thought of that... Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and i respect that... Wise words come together which is greatly appreciated on my part....   chronology: 'Love' between a man and woman (OK Gays between you Guys as well), has already been explained by psychologists, and what they found was disturbing. In plain English, being in love is a serious mental disorder. 'Love' is designed to allow bonding to take place, it does this by disabling the minds ability to recognise faults and failings in the future partner, and disables the self esteem so you forgive the offences of the future. In simple English 'love' makes you an idiot. That is why most older people feel sorry for young folks in love. Many people who break up with their partner later often ask themselves why they ever got mixed up with a piece of crap like they did, the answer is simple; 'you fell in love with it'. Being in love is as bad as being a drug addict or a alcoholic. LuvMyself: Sometimes you can be in love  with the idea of being in love....Loll Then things could get complicated.... <<---------------Needs more...   Bahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa harlett anathema: I'm a big bore.....I happen too like.....liking whom ever i choose with or without them knowing... just as i like loving whom ever i choose and or will....too what depths that love for goes too.......................it feels Good too me..... | Off Topic Chat Room Similar Conversations |
I like your way of thinking....
