Sexting Cheating or Not? (Page 4)

PatsfanNH
PatsfanNH: Amen and well said. Thanks for your response
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Zman1111
Zman1111: It's inappropriate behavior.....That's it
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uglycow10
uglycow10: I woukd totally take offence at it if my bf is sexting with some chick.

As is was, my fave chat pal was simply chatting with me...and he looked at it as cheating because he could not share it with his wife...
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Eagster
Eagster: I'm pretty sure they didn't have these problems back in the day before phones and gadgets were invented
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Eagster
Eagster: Like say the 1800's
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MrNoone 0
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fredchurch
fredchurch: myself I emailed a woman in another country for 5 years. never meet her in person but I still felt I was doing wrong.
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LoisS
LoisS: Doesn't it depend on the conversation youre having.
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MrNoone 0
MrNoone 0: cool
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texas_charlie56
texas_charlie56: hmm what else would sexting be
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mandieluckooo
mandieluckooo: hell yeah its cheating sexting is fucking someone if u r with somebody that should be the person u should be sexting or fucking
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Zman1111
Zman1111: Everyone has a definition for cheating......sexting isn't my definition..... Its just inappropriate....... I do believe sexting is also stupid so I personality wouldn't engage is such behavior......
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iowagent1956
iowagent1956: I would have to call sexting cheating. You are expending romantic and erotic energy that, in an exclusive relation ship, should be given to your partner. I know it's not quite that black and white. Extenuating circumstances may occur. At any rate, I may not participate, but I'm not going to judge.
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LoisS
LoisS: Depends why you do it.....
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Chissai
Chissai: Ask yourself 2 questions.
1. Do I want my partner to know that I’m sexting?
2. Would you be happy if your partner was sexting?

If your answer to the first question is no then you’re cheating.
(Edited by Chissai)
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Angry Beaver
Angry Beaver: watching porn and reading erotica is not interacting with an actual human....sexting is, so therefore cheating
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LoisS
LoisS: What about the dial up sex lines back when..Its a real person on the other end that youre not going to meet. Is that cheating?
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Angry Beaver
Angry Beaver: Intellectual cheating
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LoisS
LoisS: Hahaha.....
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DaintyRose
DaintyRose: I feel human today . I am 100%woman. I know alot of people feel sexting is cheating. I know alot of people that are sexting think it is ok. I think most of us can agree that it really isnt up to anyone of us, if sexting is cheating or not cheating. It is up to the persons partner if they think you may or may not be cheating . If your partner thinks sexting is cheating in their eyes you are cheating. If you want to have a relationship where you think sexting people is not cheating. you need to make your future ex comfortable , in life and move on. Find people that feel sexting is not cheating. That would be the gentle man thing to do.because if the partner thinks sexting is cheating all your doing is tormenting that person everyday of their life. Because they feel they are being.cheated on every time you are sexting. It is a persons opinion that makes sexting cheating . Not we the people. My opinion as a woman sexting is not cheating . until i decide to go to this persons bed then when I got to bed with this person then that is cheating. My opinion. . If I had a partner and he caught me sexting and my partner said I dont want you to be sexting I would have to make a choice ...my partner... or sexting.
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MrNoone 0
MrNoone 0: well said
dainty
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MrNoone 0
MrNoone 0: well wrote too
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LoisS
LoisS: Do people do it out of boredom. I think the question would be why do you do it. Then you can figure out if youre missing something in your relationship or you are just getting some harmless stimulation like you do when looking in a magazine or at porn etc.
Are people leaving their spouses over sexting? I think its up to the couple.
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MrNoone 0
MrNoone 0: boredom
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DaintyRose
DaintyRose: I have to say this:
if I am to want to continue sexting
& if my partner thinks sexting is cheating I would have to leave
or make my partner comfortable wherever they move to.
it is so unhealthy to teach people to stay together miserable
for people to be able to say believe the way I believe or be miserable until you believe the way i believe :
I would do everything I can to make myself & my partner.comfortable :
The partner would always feel cheated on everytime the partner picked up the phone to sexting
he could buy me out ( pays me my half of the house)
I buy him a place or he buys me a place
if he owns it and paid for all of the house count my losses get me a small place small down payment to buy my own home:
give my partner a property if i owned one
or find one for my partner make the down payment and help them move into the new place :
they talk about prenups for marriage people should have one for non marital relationships :
or believe the way your partner believes that sexting is cheating and dont do it anymore
or my partner feels sexting isnt cheating and now I believe that way too
& live happily ever after :

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