Sexting Cheating or Not? (Page 5) LoisS: If youre both not some what into the same thing or at least have an appreciation for the others interests, it will never work. Find out the reason you are sexting and go from there.....  DaintyRose: sexting s not for ugly.people at all in fact people that are sexting are handsome or beautiful and have a lot going for them . cloudygrey33: This is all about boundaries and what a couple agrees on mutually or finds acceptable with each other. If someone in a relationship feels like this sort of behavior is hurtful or cheating - It IS for that relationship. The point is not to hurt each other and have respect for each other's feelings. The problem is when two people disagree on what is acceptable... The main thing is - Intention! Have an intention to be honest up front and not hurt someone. If there is sneaking involved on any level- That's BS and not appropriate. LoisS: The question would be if it was for stimulus or an emotional connection. They are very different things. LoisS: If it was for an emotional connection there might be a big problem there and you should have a conversation with your SO. DaintyRose: basically alot of people say theres no sex involved so it isnt cheating. most say it is cheating in their eyes. i explained it doesnt.really matter if people think its cheating or not cheating. it is up to the partner what they feel . if the partner feels sexting is cheating then its cheating in their eyes they will feel cheated on everyday & feel tormented , if the other partner feels sexting isnt cheating cause theres no sex thats their opinion. that person will always feel sexting isnt cheating. no matter what anyone says. we must understand each persons feelings explain our opinion and hope the couple make a very kind understanding decision for theirselves. a person in a relationship should not feel cheated on everyday. the other person should not feel their opinion doesnt matter everyday. Angry Beaver: My ex wife was sexting with her childhood sweetheart, then she left me and the younguns, got divorced and married him, so i say a big YEP..sexting is cheating lol! DaintyRose: I am sure they are talking about sexting turns into cheating or not: sometimes it does and sometimes it doesnt : The main idea is to try to understand why then be fair to the mate : I feel there was a problem in the very beginining and something started to festure and was ignored : I think every couple sees when their relationship is starting to fall apart : and choose to ignore it until it becomes a huge problem or waits for the right timing for whatever reason to wait to deal with the problem: or hope the problem goes away adventualy all major problem/s in a relationship have to be dealt with & its best to be fair (Edited by DaintyRose) Angry Beaver: Or one half of the couple carries a flame for 30 years and doesn't tell the other half til they're walking..... Angry Beaver:  neither I or any of our friends thought we were anything less than a happy family... was a real gut kick. DaintyRose: sometimes little digs example about looks the way something is said or the way something is done : or even a mates opinions the way they feel strongly about something the other one doesnt or does alot happens behind closed doors words are said behind closed doors little gentle digs criticising the way one did something or not letting something go continually on one thing all the time even simply doing nothing in a relationship (boring) can send a relationship into a downward spiral: DaintyRose: lots of couples go through mid life crisis some more extreme then others and manage to stay together. Angry Beaver: When only one goes thru it, makes life hard Women are weird when their hormones go off.... You can make excuses for her as much as you like, she made the decision to leave her husband and kids, because she wondered what could have been if she had married the fat fuck who knocked her up as a 15 yr old... her heart was never in it. She married me because "he asked me and I couldn;t say no" <--- her words She used me and pissed off when i wasn;t convenient any more. See I couldn;t do that to another person... (Edited by Angry Beaver) DaintyRose: time heals all wounds.. they say to get over a person ..you have to be ready to get under someone new... maybe you will find someone new someday .. (Edited by DaintyRose) Angry Beaver: I got someone new, never get over her betrayal tho.....unfortunately She made a big mistake hurting our kids.... i love my kids, would never do that for selfish reasons (Edited by Angry Beaver) DaintyRose: thats why were here . your saying you found a new love . your here socialising.even after you found the one. can it turn into cheating or not cheating who knows. the main situation is that if being here or sexting turns into cheating your fair to her. if it doesnt then you found the one. to make sure your new partner knows where you stand . as well as knowing where she stands on you being here. can it lead to cheating or not cheating. sexting can it lead to cheating or not cheating. who knows time will know... (Edited by DaintyRose) Angry Beaver: Nar, we's tight.... we just like having our own space... she chats also.....trust is big | Off Topic Chat Room Similar Conversations |