anyway to contact someon not on their friend list

graycrow3
graycrow3: can't do that chat or msg and I don't know the email
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lovechild5660
lovechild5660: did u get any replies on how to contact ppl who are not on ur friends list?
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graycrow3
graycrow3: just from you
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graycrow3
graycrow3: not yet, but i saw my friend jackie was in status 'away' for a little while the other day, but not sure is that is intentional or a setting so................. but the friend may not come on much either so.........
thanks
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lovechild5660
lovechild5660: Sometimes i use the away bc i really AM away, other times i use it bc im busy playin a game. But i always reply to pm's if im there. Or when i get back. I seldom PM others bc i don't want to bother them, interrupt etc. Don't forget to try some of her friends tho. My net is weird, udk whats up with it. So im on my cell which seems fine. I'll check in off/on. Tc and stay cootie free. Love
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graycrow3
graycrow3: i tried one of her friends and have not heard a word, of course, how often is the person, i m trying to contact on? and how often the friend? or do they communicate any longer, etc etc, etc, and of course, you can't im someone who is away, if they have the chat function set to only friends can im you, or am i missing something there, about away???
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lovechild5660
lovechild5660: Yoy can PM someone whose "away". But u caint PM someone who, as u said, has it set to friends only, or if u urself ARE offline or have urself showin as offline. Id PM or INBOX everyone of her friends that dont have those set to friends only. Otherwise, the only thing u can do is room hop and hope to catch her OR 1 of her friends in that room. You cud also post here in Forum, somethin bout "Im tryin to contact a friend who may not know Im in wire", etc etc and see if u get someone who knows her to reply. But ull have to put her screen name on there.
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graycrow3
graycrow3: seems like, she must have checked,'In privacy options' about who can contact her or im her, , 'only my friends or nobody', maybe i ll contact some of her other friends, thats a maybe thanks though
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lovechild5660
lovechild5660: No prob. Many people here check that only friends can PM/Inox them bc theyve had stalkers/haters. My Pm's are locked at times bc I get so many strange sick people. I get tired of it. Then after awhile, I'll unlock them and itll be ok for awhile. I dont mind Pm's from people who just wanna chat, but I sure aint interested in people who wanna lick my shoes, sniff my shoes and my pantyhose. Know what I mean? I am in Wire to chat and try to make friends, altho Ive found it dont happen very offen. Ive offen thot of deletin my whole account. Anyway, dont do anythin u aint comfy with and if she gets ur msg and for whatever reason dont wanna chat with ya, take it as a sign and look for new people who will treat ya right, its her loss
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graycrow3
graycrow3: what was odd, for me, was i was on aol for a years adn i thought i had made a lot of playdate friends, nice women, but for the most part, as aol was closing down the rooms, i emailed all those names and hardly any answered back, life on line is full of disappointments and its nice to get used to them and not become jaded, there is an interesting quote by rosalind from shakespeare, 'as you like it' play, "men die from time to time and worms eat them but not for love" now what the heck does that mean? but if you get to know the character of rosalind, she believes in love, embraces it wholly but she has no intention of allowing it to be become tragic or destructive, that is not love !!

later
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lovechild5660
lovechild5660: I have become jaded with "friends" here. I no longer add, if they PM me, I'm happy to chat. But i see no reason to add people who will never speak to me once added. And for some, their "friends" are a status. When I used to add, i wudnt if they had like a lot on their list. I'm no one status. People aint always what they seem or portray. Sad, but true. Love
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graycrow3
graycrow3: never did hear from that young lady we were discussing
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lovechild5660
lovechild5660: Im sorry.
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graycrow3
graycrow3: no, its fine really, we had a wonderful time when we played together, we did best we could about contacting her, we ll just leave the rest to chance

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graycrow3
graycrow3: what have you been up to on here, anything your embarrassed to say??
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