It is too hard for being single mother? tylaaa: i just hate people judging single mothers, like we all have diff circumstances as to why there is no father in our child's life, does not mean we're sluts or bad moms cause there is no active father or we arent with the father of our children. its much harder raising a child on your own than ppl realize Snowy_: Just remember that the people who have the most to say about you, as in criticizing you. Well they are the people who know the least. Being a single Mom is hard work. Raising kids is not easy. tien nabella: i dumb my xhusband..im so happy what i have now and feel so comfortable without him... adlaguna08: I am a single mother of two children and it is hard but yet its easy when u have a people there to support u like family and friends! My advice about the father's child is if they dont wanna be in the child's life then let them go its their loss on missing out on the greatest thing in life! Thats what i think about my son's dad and my daughter's dad! Yes i do have two different baby daddies! My son's dad was a one night thing that shouldve never happened but in the end i got a wonderful son! i was young when i had him and my daughter's dad was my ex fiance i left him when things turned for the worse after i got pregnant and now he has nothing to do with her and she is eight months old!! All single mother can make without the fathers help all u need is your family and friends to help u make it thru!! jenni70445: tylaa you are very young and sounds like your doing a great job being a mommy !!!!!!!!!!!!!! so to all the single moms happy late fathers day cause your being mommy and daddy!!! jenni70445: as far as the father goes if you gave him a chance to be in the childs life and he is making no effort put his ass on child support girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!! one day they will all be sorry when they missed out on the most awesome kids ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The giant midget: It's very hard indeed I have been a single father / mother to 3 grown kids now for almost 21 years , my youngest was only 3 years old back then. I managed to send them to the best schools money could buy , payed my mortgage, kept my struggling business afloat , with minimal or no support from family or friends or government agencies. I had to juggle everything around the kids before anything else ,kids come first It was emotional and physical stress by the shiploads in the beginning I don't have any regrets at all I did sacrifice a lot of my personal life but it was all worth it Stay focused on your kids and be as much independent as possible Don't waste time crying over yesterday, live for tomorrow Best of luck to you all Sinlgef9: It only sucks as much as you let it. Is it a struggle? Yes of course. It’s a major F-ing struggle, but every day is a blessing that you get to pass along knowledge and create a strong smart kids | Parenting Chat Room 47 People Chatting Similar Conversations |