Happily Married ??? (Page 2) tinkerbellfaery: I prefer real natural women blemish and all cannot stand manufactured women who cling desperately to societal magazine imagery doma116: We as a couple enhance our lives by looking at other peoples lives and learn from their mistakes.Big mistake we find is their is no honest communication.Second one is that it is alright to masturbate when the need arises. doma116: I think it causes excitement for them to flirt.Both females and males it increases their arousal and gets their juices flowing. flamingred: well if happily married a couple can do all kinds of fantasies, sexual adventures etc to keep a couple interested and feeling sexual and loved having good knowledge about each other and knowing what makes sex fantastic can be a great advantage , experimenting with all kinds of sexual angles, than your man or woman does not need to go flirting to feel better irondominator: The people who are "happily married" are just in denial. They subconsciously know their soul mate is out there and they desire to seek it. This goes for both men and women. If a "happily married" woman was complete, she wouldn't have body shots on social media. There's always that search that there is something better out there, until you've found that person. Motati: Irondominator what you are saying is interesting, even though I don't necessarily agree with you. irondominator: It's true though. It's human nature to want to be with the best person for you. Being that most people do not date enough before marrying, it's a fact that there is someone out there better for them. The more they search of them through social media, the more likely they will find them. What is it you don't agree with? I see this happening every day. Motati: My take is people are happily married because they are content. Maybe they have accepted that if you can't be with the one that you love, love the one you are with. If it's working for them, good for them, hence "happily married." Motati: I strongly believe that two people can learn to love each other. It has worked in arranged marriages. Love alone often doesn't sustain a long term relationship or marriage. irondominator: That's correct. They have accepted "good enough"; but they know that out there is something better. Better wealth, better looks, better sex, better life. When people advertise themselves on social media, they are crying out for an unfilled desire. Their soul knows there is something better out there and although they won't admit it to anyone or even themselves, they still have their bait in the water. If the opportunity arises where they see a better deal out there, they will tend to lead a double life until their heart is too invested in that other life to not turn it into a real affair. I've seen this happen so many times and statistics show this to be true. Motati: Not sure if it's worth still be looking for something more exciting outside your marriage. However human beings in general are difficult to please, when you get something good, already you are thinking about the possibility or the potential of getting something better. I suppose the same thing happens in relationships and marriages. (Edited by Motati) irondominator: No, you shouldn't be looking for something outside your marriage. The idea is to not get married until you've come to the realization that you are never going to find someone better. The only way to do this is to see as many people as possible. This is the problem most people make. They don't see enough people. They get married young for all the wrong reasons; then their marriage falls apart for all the right reasons. This is why the divorce rate is so high in America. Today we have more people married before social media became popular, so this is new unexplored territory for them. It's like their tiny world has gotten bigger. Also, there are fewer people getting married today and I'm sure a lot of this has to do with social media; fewer people are bothering to go on real dates. Motati: Hahahahahahahaha! Apparently nothing confuses a woman than being in a relationship with an insolvent man who is extremely good in bed. Motati: I am just wondering how long will it take for one to find his or her match. And will you be having sexual intercourse with all those people, to check if you are also compatible in bed? doma116: A male possibly will be fantastic in bed giving his woman countless orgasms.Then he does not treat his woman with dignity and respect and calls her a bitch or other unkind words and treats her badly.So a couple may have a lot of rough spots to smooth out. This month we will celebrate forty two years of marriage. It was not always smooth but we worked together to make it work for our sake and the children. We learned that honesty and no lies tell about our fantasies whatever they may be and work at them. |