I want to break up with my boyfriend but cant!!! HELP!!! (Page 2) beccaelle1: Find way to deal with your problems of unhappiness which will never improve no matter who you'r with. You'll be the one who wrecks lives and is on her own at 60 years old wondering why. Lavou: Slap him in the face, shove him down the stairs, slam the door shut after screaming "Get out of my life!" then lock it shut. Problem solved! jk, but honestly just let him you don't want him in your life. Get others to help him realize what he's doing is selfish and wrong. If you don't want him then just make him realize that it's easier to move on. Lavou: Then we have different opinions about what is a good joke. Anyways, it's not what I meant and I'm sorry if it offended you. beccaelle1: It didn't offend me. Just the hypocrisy disturbs me and almost every other man I know. Slap her in the face, shove her down the stairs, slam the door shut after screaming "Get out of my life!" then lock it shut. LOl Lol imagine it? eckert926: feel free to reach out for advise. If your unhappy you need to leave! I just broke off my engagement because I found my fiancé of 5 years cheating on me and its the most devastating thing. It happened a few months ago and I'm still dealing with it. Don't make the same mistakes me and my ex made. if your not happy get out. Its very difficult and your only going to think bout the good times. But there is a reason your in this place and it takes a strong willed person to leave. Feel free to reach out when ever! irondominator: Why are people still giving this girl advice? She asked for advice 8 years ago! If she's still with him now, she's never going to leave him! Staggalee21: You can not break up with your boyfriend because it isn't time yet. Back and forth is apart of an intimate relationship routine. You will either learn to grow out of it. Or grow away from each other. Let life do its thing. davyjones373: Just be honest with him and tell him how you feel. If he truely cares, He will understand. And if that doesnt work, Lawyer up. (Post deleted by goodevil008 ) (Post deleted by spiritlion ) keith60456: Change the locks, tell him goodby, and start over. You obviously made a bad choice with him. simpleladey: staying with someone cause youre scared to do the right thing is ridiculous...get a back bone n do what is right, you will look back on this one day n you'll know it was right SplendorofYah: You have to pray to see if this person is your soulmate I left a 7 year abusive dead marriage and found my soul mate after . NoDreamcatcher: Just tell him, " I want to break up with my boyfriend but dont no how. i think i love him. i feel really uphappy and want to cry all the time. what should i do ??". He will break up with you. FunkyBiscuits82: Well, I guess at this point, I can only hope that she worked her issues out with the guy, or that she ended it with him. lol. stlfourlife53: Honesty is the best policy so just tell him how you feel. Its going to hurt him and there is no guarantee he will just accept it and move. The one thing you dont want to do is go easy and tell him half truth. I had that happened to me and I didnt accept my ex reasoning behind her breaking things off until years later when I found her and she told me the real reason then I accepted it and moved on. So again just be straight forward with him and hope he understands. | Self-Improvement Chat Room Similar Conversations |