Brother is getting married but he has a secret prostit*te addiction (Page 2)

Mew_
Mew_: Oh sorry, didn't read recent replies..I say tell her, she might be in denial, especially if your brother is good at covering his tracks with good excuses. Tell her because you care about her health.you have nothing to lose at this point!!!
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PrettyNikkiGurl
PrettyNikkiGurl: lol. i completly with you kellee3. you are exactly right.nikki
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dvustimmer
dvustimmer: Why does this sound like a south park episode. To be honest, what exactly is the problem? I don't think the problem is your brother based on how you have described it. I mean sure, maybe an addiction like the one he has could lead to lets say, I don't know, health concerns for him such as STD's, but you have not brought that up. Sounds to me like your concern is about somewhat how his actions reflect on you and if you stick you nose in it how does that come back and bite you in the butt. Well sport, here the thing, you can't think for other people. I'm going to take a leap of faith here and believe your brother did not come up with this addiction until after he was 5 years old. So 13 years later sounds like no matter when his addition started, math dictates he pretty much an adult legally. This is the part where I state the obvious. If you think its that important and say something to him or her, well someone is going to be pissed at you. There is a slim chance I'm wrong on that, but if I'm playing the odds...... So now I have to state the next obvious question. Is this about him, is this about her, is this about your dad, or is this about you. The way you describe your brother, which if the title of the thread didn't give it away, words like manipulative probably would lead me to believe you don't really think highly of him so it's not about him. Is it about his soon to be, hmmmm, maybe, maybe. Is it about dad who if this all came out could lose everything including the will to live? Seriously? Did you really throw that chucky morsal out there? I could see if your dad was like a Federal Senator where that statement may somewhat pertain. But if dad knows about some of this, my guess is he can cope, so it's not about him. That leaves her and you. Frankly all of this is so incredibly unbelievable I just don't care. Point is, you stand for what you believe in, it's called conviction. But if you are being wishy washy with but what if this and what if that and can't figure it out on your own, it's really not that important to you in the first place. You need someone to tell you do the right thing? Well, it's hard to tell you that when you don't have a clue as to what the right thing is. It even harder to tell someone what the right thing to do is when they are themselves so afraid of what might happen to them if they do and can't balance these things out and not worry so much about how it affects them personally first and foremost. But I like south park, so what the hey.
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Np19
Np19: hypnotherpepy helps
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swilliam052
swilliam052: tell the truth ,shame the devil.
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bobby1960
bobby1960: take his girlfriend out and screw her good make her leave him...what a plan
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PrettyNikkiGurl
PrettyNikkiGurl: No I completely disagree. U should never cheat on ur spouse. No matter? Who u r. That is my opinion and many others.
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PrettyNikkiGurl
PrettyNikkiGurl: I agree with William
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misc123abe
misc123abe: Tough position to be in. But or the safety of another human being I.e STD I would day something. You may want to ask her subtley if the use protection...
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allie_kat
allie_kat: Wow! Tell that poor girl... cause that's a nightmare and if he is doing this before there married and if you suspect rape? He could hurt her! Not just with std's... it'll also ware on. Your mind and heart if you don't warn her
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MickeyK
MickeyK: where did this notion come from that the guy wants to have sex with his sister in law? and isn't this all moot anyway? afterall, the date for the wedding has long since passed if you check how long ago the thread was started and how long the original poster stated there was until the wedding in question.

and one last thing, if the woman is at risk for having STI's that she is not aware of, remember she assumes she's in a monogamous relationship, then she's not going to be tested. am i the only one that thinks it's grody to fuck your sister in law in the hopes of getting her to either not marry or divorce your brother? hello?! who wants an STI from their brother? that is just disturbing.
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miss_biatch
miss_biatch: that is horrible. Your brother doesn't deserve to get married, and he will catch an STI soon enough if he didn't already....but his poor wife to be is the innocent one that doesn't deserve a disease. An addiction to prostitutes and brothels doesn't just end when married.... it will most likely be a life long addiction just like any other addiction. Why not pay a private investigator to take pics and send the evidence to the wife to be.
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QueeniePoo
QueeniePoo: I dont know but if it was me, I would tell her. It's not right in anyones mind, especially his. He can't justify this in any way, shape or form. He does not sound like a very decent person.
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PrettyNikkiGurl
PrettyNikkiGurl: I agree with everything u said. Damn u guys hit it all on the nail.
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Irishinthewind
Irishinthewind: marrage is a form of prostitution with the added bonus of the prostitute being monogomus, i say tell the wife, dirty fucker
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tylerdurdensbrother
tylerdurdensbrother: My friend is also addicted to that shit. He has a gf as well. She didn't care the first time he fessed up, but then he has lied since then. He keeps it a secret. There is probably no way to help him. Other than just saying, no hookers and spying on him 24/7 like some weirdo haha. Most likely he thinks sex is separated from his normal relationship, which it isn't, but people like pretending.
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Gala_
Gala_: Wonder if he has internet in Thailand? Wish he would come back and tell us how things are going for them. Sex is way way over rated in my books. This brother has serious self esteem issues. What a douche. And shame on the OP for not being honest with his Sister in Law.
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da Sweetest
da Sweetest: You gotta tell her, cause when the day that she find out on her own, it's obvious that this marriage turn into hell. u gotta guide ur bro to make right decision, also, maybe there are reasons that he's get addicted to prostitutes, I guess this is a prob btw ur brother and his gf, so they gotta talk it out, if nothing gets better, then your bro GOTTA STOP MESSING UP WITH ONE WOMAN'S LIFE, AND LET HER FIND SOMEONE WHO TRUELY DESERVES HER LOVE. WTF! IS THIS EVEN a QUESTION?/ suppose your bro's gf is ur sister and she's engaged with a guy like your brother, what the fuck would you do?
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OCD_OCD
OCD_OCD: So he wants his wife and his prosy also? LOL

He's not going to listen to anything you say. If you care for his girlfriend then tell her. But be ready to have no further relationship with your brother or father.

Do what you feel is right, but understand the consequences.
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