For Those willing to grow I salute you

bones_breaker_
bones_breaker_: Hello Readers

Weather you came to this forum with a purpose or just dropped by because of curiosity or any other reason , we all want the best in all the areas of our life but sometimes the willing can be the source of deception when we search for the wrong kind of solutions .

They´re temporary solutions but their emotional effect can stay on for a long time , building barriers inside the mind to keep us from overcoming problems and difficulties and transforming our life into a better life , sometimes those temporary solutions are escapes we use to delay facing what needs to be faced .

Some of us are afraid of changes
because we have doubts of how things will end up
and already know there will be failure and we tend to see failure as a cue to give up
When in fact it should be seen as a motivation to continue since it´s from them we learn and discover strength within .

Everyday we receive the gift of life
and have opportunities
to fix what´s broken
to fill what´s empty
to understand what is unknown
and to create where once there was nothing

The beauty of life is that even the bad and negative things can provide us ways to grow on the things that really matter , things which have an infinity to be discovered
and put together to give life to true happiness based on things that nothing ( no matter how big and strong ) and no one ( no matter how hurtful ) can take from you .

I believe good messages should be shared
and I share mine through a blog which the link´s on my profile
If you ever have the curiosity to visit it , feel free .

For those willing to grow I salute you

Take care Everybody !


(Edited by bones_breaker_)
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WonderWoman1
WonderWoman1: Awesome !
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bones_breaker_
bones_breaker_: Thank you !!! would you take a look at a link if I sent you ???
it´s about all of this and much more
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WonderWoman1
WonderWoman1: I am so sorry I want to thumbs up but this iPad every time I click it bounces back ...just turns red...ya I would love to see it
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iamthebrain
iamthebrain: Yea what you say is pretty much true, and its good to see your motivated and excited about this sort of thing. Usually someone says "there 's a reason to live" and then doesn't give actual articulated reasons. That being said, you should go to the Anxiety/Depression/Emo chat rooms that users create and rant about the hopilessness of their lives, you should go cheer them up, they need it.
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WonderWoman1
WonderWoman1: oh I go there often hun thanks
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iamthebrain
iamthebrain: I go there too, only problem is, people like to tell me their problems, but as soon as I start to talk about what hppened to me in Iraq literally everyone leaves or the room dies. No one can help me I guess.
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bones_breaker_
bones_breaker_: here´s the link : www.journeytoyourendless.blogspot.com
hope you like it
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DuesMortiis
DuesMortiis: Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and ignorant; they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be critical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace within your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy.

© Max Ehrmann 1927
(Edited by DuesMortiis)
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WonderWoman1
WonderWoman1: Thank you friend
Happy 4th of July America
Peace to the World
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DuesMortiis
DuesMortiis: and war to the middle east?
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DuesMortiis
DuesMortiis: hehe sorry, couldn't help myself
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WonderWoman1
WonderWoman1: you need to leave that in other Blog it dont belong here hun...
anyway for short war in the Middle East is finally fruitful..Egypt got their Freedom...People power ..PEACE
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geminijinn
geminijinn: @bones_breaker_ And To_DuesMortiis Two extremely interesting posts, gentlemen. Glad to see you gave credit to your source.
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WonderWoman1
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WonderWoman1
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bones_breaker_
bones_breaker_: Thanks for the words Geminijinn
I´m glad you took sometime to read it , hope you reflected about it and that it helped you gain some knowledge about your own life , there´s always something new to learn , for all of us
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geminijinn
geminijinn: @ bones_breaker : I will not take the time to give good words to a post, unless I have read it. I will often go two ways in my feelings about a post. Sometimes I will take the words to heart. But, I will most often take the words as they will benefit my fellows.
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crystalduck 
crystalduck: bones_breaker.....love your post.

If we didn't expose our vulnerability and allow ourselves to be open to new experiences , and growth because of it - we may not mature in terms of learning what our strengths and capabilities are - whether the outcomes be good or bad .

Pain or suffering are a temporary thing's , unless you like to dwell on that kind of thing. One thing we have no matter what - is the right to choose and make the choices ourselves and even when things get rough, choose again to improve upon any future experience we allow into our lives. It is only fear which ties us down to not getting up and walking tall again.

Life is a learning curve and I prefer to dive into it. How can one learn from inexperience? I think whoever you are, throw yourself into life and , breathe as much energy as you can into it.
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Plumpcherry
Plumpcherry: Interesting
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