Why do women have trouble communicating with a guy

deuce916: when they're in love?

deuce916: They can communicate their feelings to their girl friends but not to the guy they want.

lori100: I find it's the guy who can't communicate...

deuce916: You would, I find it's the females who DON'T communicate.

lori100: ask why'

deuce916: Because they have trouble communicating their feelings to a good looking guy, that's why.

deuce916: While they're telling their friends behind his back how good looking he is, they're facing him front on & playing down his looks.

deuce916: I should know, it happens to me all the time.

deuce916: Guys have no trouble communicating to a female how good looking she is.

deuce916: Now come on lori, I can't see you going up to a good looking guy & telling him how good looking he is. You'd be too scared.

lori100: shy guys have trouble, shy women too likely.....and I have told many guys they look nice when they are dressed up....

deuce916: But have you ever fronted a really good-looking guy just on his face alone?

lori100: no...but they usually know they are good looking....need more than looks ...

deuce916: Apparently they don't need more than looks, according to girls I've known.

lori100: if they want a long lasting relationship they do...many great looking guys are not trust worthy because they get so many women

deuce916: True. I'm not trustworthy, & the women can't stand it. So if the girl puts the good-looking guy down it's because she doesn't want him to know he's good looking, thus getting a long-lasting relationship. So we've answered the question "Why".

deuce916: Thank you lori.

lori100: yw

BabesInToyland: Because we have high expectations, mood swings, too many switches+buttons and you need to block all those silly romance drama series before it brainwashes are heads into thinking fantasy land is reality. When it's not!

BabesInToyland: Also peer pressure from friends and family give us that idea that everything is competition.

BabesInToyland: Drain the feminazi swamp!!!

deuce916: I don't know if I can have a relationship again, not with all the games. Time will tell.

BabesInToyland: Change the rules of the game, then you'll be a winner.

S W l N E: Communicate feelings? May not be difficult.
Say: I enjoy your company, I want more of it, I will pick you up at .... and make the arrangements.

S W l N E: On a side note, idk about the culture where you are at but the assertiveness is on our end as the men. Women lay back.

Stripped_bare: well, you said it yourself deuce you cannot be trusted so why would a woman trust that you will take anything she says seriously ergo no point in approaching you and telling you she finds you attractive because you will see that as more power to you and not as an honest expression from her. If you are looking for a relationship that matters perhaps you need to take a step back from needing validation about your looks and value more the things that matter, seek out people who want the same things......or maybe you are just not in the right spot for that right now in your life.