AaronAlmighty: well my point is that how do u expect guys to react when u look like ur for sale. This little comment is just a very common thing that happens and it ends up looking like the guy is the one being creepy or pervy. I might be old fashioned. but when a girl shows her boobs and butt (in revealing clothing like a tank top or tight pants) it means she's ready for something sexual in nature. I'm sure i don't speak for every guy, like there has to be guys out there who are with the fashion and like fruity drinks and wearing pink and have a lisp that can understand you wearing something that is new and fashion fresh. But for straight men like me. It can be confusing as hell.
Czar Bree: I kind of agree^ ......but on the other hand sometimes I just like wearing my skimpy dresses for myself then again, I don't say stupid things like that.
but I do know men are wired to be aroused by images/looks, so nature does take a fault in this.
Qreep: Layers -- that's my motto! Seriously though. I get your point. But first impressions are usually entirely wrong. So just because a woman is dressing scantily clad, doesn't mean she wants anything more. I believe any person should be able to express themselves as they wish. I mean, sure -- of course a guy is going to have lustful thoughts and desires. It only becomes a problem when they aggressively pursue despite it being unwanted. It's kind of a double standard. But it does depend on the person, too. Oh, and the whole 'guys are all the same' crap is definitely unnecessary. And just annoying tbh. When women say that, I vomit all over them. But, yeah. I see what you're getting at.
AaronAlmighty in reply to Qreep: very true, but you hve to understand how a guys brain works first. Guys fall in love with what they see, girls fall in love with what they hear. So a girl dressing like a slut is 100% going to get that sort of attention. Whether she wants it or not. All I'm saying is if you are dressed that way. don't assume a guy is pervy just because of his reaction. But thaank you for agreeing on guys are all the same crap. It takes a smart individual to really notice that and mean it.
*guy wants to have sex with her*
girl- "ugh, guys are all the same.."
um...no shit.
but I don't agree girls should say that about guys!!
I might be old fashioned. but when a girl shows her boobs and butt (in revealing clothing like a tank top or tight pants) it means she's ready for something sexual in nature.
I'm sure i don't speak for every guy, like there has to be guys out there who are with the fashion and like fruity drinks and wearing pink and have a lisp that can understand you wearing something that is new and fashion fresh.
But for straight men like me. It can be confusing as hell.
but I do know men are wired to be aroused by images/looks, so nature does take a fault in this.
Seriously though. I get your point. But first impressions are usually entirely wrong. So just because a woman is dressing scantily clad, doesn't mean she wants anything more. I believe any person should be able to express themselves as they wish. I mean, sure -- of course a guy is going to have lustful thoughts and desires. It only becomes a problem when they aggressively pursue despite it being unwanted. It's kind of a double standard. But it does depend on the person, too. Oh, and the whole 'guys are all the same' crap is definitely unnecessary. And just annoying tbh. When women say that, I vomit all over them. But, yeah. I see what you're getting at.