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"Ancora imparo"

2023 edit: I'm 100% Double XX chromosome, made by nature, FEMALE. I can't help having angular cheekbones and boney hips. I'm not going to give you a peek at my plumbing to "prove" anything, get over it. Some of you bitches are pretty hurtful.

Yes, I'm still learning. I've been accused of being standoffish. I'm anything but that. I am.. cautious. I have a huge callous where my vulnerability used to be, but that's not your business. Stuff happens. Life happens, we move on.

So, we're on this community thing. People can text and message you constantly.

Alright, let's talk about the awkward stuff. I'm not here to sext. I"m not here to cam, pic swap, discuss my private life, your private life, or chat with *every single person* who pops in. I'm not saying this to be mean, but it's a pattern that I see on every single site like this.


What I like sexually, who I'm in a relationship with or not-- I don't discuss this with strangers. Do you? I mean seriously. Do you? So to help you out if you need these things spelled out: I'm not here to find a Master or Mistress, I'll never be subservient to either sex. I don't need a Dom, a Domme, or a slave-- I don't see sex as being that binary, you are either this or that, and can't be anything else. There, I said it. An accident of genetics doesn't make you a superior anything. You may feel free to disagree but please keep it to yourself.

With that said, I'm ALSO just bored and sick of being holed up waiting for the plague to go away. That's the reason I started my account.. I'm not desperate. It's not an open invite. Sorry! I'm glad we got that out of the way.

Otherwise, I"m a relatively normal person who defaults to being kind and courteous, unless people aren't that way back. I'm sure we're all going to be on our best behavior together.. I've got a great feeling about this. Ha ha ha ha ha haaaaaaaaaaaa gasp wheeze.. oh, I slay me.

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Atotalstranger: Hey now, it's holy ghostin' time! Git on your feeeeet
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Atotalstranger: Well, yeah, that was the joke.
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Yari97: He’s pretty bufff.. more like a hulkin’ vulcan.
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Atotalstranger: Spock don't wear no red shirt, neither.
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Atotalstranger: https://www.islanddogs.com/products/im-with-stupid-mug
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JnJFun: I’m always the person next to the person with that mug
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Atotalstranger: Man, AI photos have really taken over on here, haven't they?
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Atotalstranger: An Irish Airman foresees his Death
By Yeats

I know that I shall meet my fate
Somewhere among the clouds above;
Those that I fight I do not hate,
Those that I guard I do not love;
My country is Kiltartan Cross,
My countrymen Kiltartan’s poor,
No likely end could bring them loss
Or leave them happier than before.

Nor law, nor duty bade me fight,
Nor public men, nor cheering crowds,
A lonely impulse of delight
Drove to this tumult in the clouds;
I balanced all, brought all to mind,
The years to come seemed waste of breath,
A waste of breath the years behind
In balance with this life, this death.

from The Wild Swans at Coole, 1919
public domain
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Megan Andrews: mmmmm
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Atotalstranger: Giving calendars as stocking stuffers always seems like a waste of time, but this one caught my eye.
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Atotalstranger: Wizards Rave...

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Atotalstranger: I've seen far too many bald headed men with pony tails to make sense of this world.
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Atotalstranger: Hi all, are you feelin groovy?

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Atotalstranger: While recovering from my turkey coma, I watched the Kensington Dog show and this:
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Atotalstranger: This year, everybody counts, or NOBODY counts.
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Atotalstranger: I was being saintly.
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melee337337: Poetry
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Atotalstranger: So the turkey is in the roaster, the sweet potatoes are peeled and in the oven, the vegetarian dish is baking slowly and smelling of sage. I love this time of year. It makes me reflective. I like to cook for family and friends. In years past I would have been entertaining a small crowd-- not so much nowadays.

I've been a regular here for about two years, since in the middle of COVID. I'm glad I came, and I'm glad I found many of the communities I hang out in. Some of you have been very supportive. A few of you know of some trauma of the past that I am overcoming. I can't tell you how good it is to come here and be told, repeatedly -- you have value. You are fine the way you are. We enjoy your company. Thank you, you shameless flirts, for making me feel good about myself (most days).

Have a happy thanksgiving, US Wireclub members, and I'm thankful for you.

Kacey
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Yari97: I am thankful for your wonderful spirit. Thank you for sharing of yourself.
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Atotalstranger: "Blood in the Cut"

The boy I love's got another girl
He might be f- her right now
I don't have an apartment
Thought if I was smart, I'd make it far
But I'm still at the start

Guess I'm contagious, it'd be safest if you ran
That's what they all just end up doing in the end
Take my car and paint it black
Take my hand, break it in half
Say something, do it soon
It's too quiet in this room

I need noise
I need the buzz of a sub
Need the crack of a whip
Need some blood in the cut
I need noise
I need the buzz of a sub
Need the crack of a whip
Need some blood in the cut
I need blood in the cut
I need blood in the cut

Met back up with the boy I love
Cried on the streets of San Francisco
I don't have an agenda
All I do is pretend to be okay
So my friends can't see my heart in the blender

And lately, I've been killing all my time
Reading through your messages, my favorite way to die
Take my head and kick it in
Break some bread for all my sins
Say a word, do it soon
It's too quiet in this room
I need noise
I need the buzz of a sub
Need the crack of a whip
Need some blood in the cut
I need noise

I need the buzz of a sub
Need the crack of a whip
Need some blood in the cut
I need blood in the cut
I need blood in the cut

I need noise
I need the buzz of a sub
Need the crack of a whip
Need some blood in the cut
I need noise
I need the buzz of a sub
Need the crack of a whip
Need some blood in the cut
I need blood in the cut
I need blood in the cut

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Atotalstranger: I love K. Flay
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moblkhoney68: Darling!!☆☆☆☆☆
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Atotalstranger: Don't despair, it's nothing but the passing of greed.

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