Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't ~~~ Erica Jong
midniteangel1950: My prayers are with you. Hope you will grow stronger with time. If you need a friend I'm here.NO STRINGS
baybeblue: Lifes hard. But the only advice I can give is to remain yourself at all times. Enjoy yourself in life. Be confident, don't be afraid to walk up and bluntly flirt or ask for a number. Just do it respectfully. Dont be afraid of anything in life take charge and go for what makes you happy. Be compassionate, considerate, be slow with your reactions and accept your actions. Most importantly forgive. Forgive people who've hurt you. Forgive people who used you. But don't forget to forgive yourself.
Recently I had the most traumatic thing I could ever imagine happen to me. I haven't spoken publicly about it because I'm afraid. So this is where I'm going to express myself because here I don't have neighbors, I don't have family. Just people I've met over the years who I've chatted with here and there. And now I'm going to try and open up and be real.
Just know the story is real and I survived! Maybe not the same person I was before, I am a little bit stronger but also a little unstable.
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Ice1234: My native language is spanish so i excuse myself if i type something out of place.
I have no idea what you have through,i do know that for some reason,most of us (if not everyone) go through something horrofying that tries to scar us for life and damage us on the inside. Ive been thinking about lately how any physical damage i ever received didnt affect me much,and yet the damage to my emotions,to my mind is what took many many years to overcome.
I was only able to find peace again when i started getting to know Christ. Because if i am honest with u,religion sort of made things worst if that makes sense at all. But He did give me peace and gave me back my humanity. Wich i had lost along the way.
I will keep u in prayer Miss blue. I am happy to know you survive and are here. I believe you are an overcomer and can be a blessing to others in their road to also overcome and forgive others.
Hoping the very best for you
baybeblue: Thank you Ice. I have definitely been reading the Bible looking for strength and I've I am getting better it is just taking a while. Everyday I figure our another way I have been affected. Just keep praying I will come out on the otherside.
RavenSpirit™: I'm not sure what it is you went through luv but I know it's something and it sounds very traumatic and scary. You're in my thoughts and I will send you all the strength I can. If you ever need someone to talk to, vent to, or just someone to listen, I'm here for you. Send me a message here or on FB, either way, I will always respond! *Huge hugs and lots of love*
baybeblue: Yesterday was a pretty good day. I woke up in a great mood. For a moment I felt like myself. I put makeup on did my hair and did thinga. These are big steps because lately I just wear sweat pants any only go out if I need to. Hairs always a mess and I don't want to be around people. But yesterday I was not afraid.
The universe didn't like my confidence. While I was at the store this guy comes up to the window trying to sell these pills and asking for other types of pills. My friend was talking to him and the guy who was obviously on something got loud and mad reaching into the car. I flipped I started crying and shaking he followed us in the car and rode our ass. I mean I seriously had flash backs I remembered laying there on the ground looking up into Lucas eyes I remember begging for my life. I remember crawling in the mud to get away. And I know this random in counter at the store is not the same. I know he doesn'tknow what I've been through. I know he was just being an ass. But I was so afraid he was going to hunt us down I was so afraid he was going to try and kill me. It'sso hard to smile when I'm so on edge.
Ice1234: Trauma and inner wounds can torment a person at any time. Even when there seems to be nothing wrong.
Ill be praying for u blue;I do suggest asking God to heal ur heart and mind. He is the only expert i know that can do it.
Be at peace