 Friends      | View all 6 posts  Harrison001: love a day at the track 8 years ago • Report 0  bella1007: Yes I am fine, just really busy that is all. Like usual I have taken on way too much. How are you doing?  Adrienne____: bella1007: Would love to chat with you. I'm a former teacher and I'm sure we both have the battles scares to prove it.   bella1007: So the race I have been training for is complete. My goal 47 minutes to finish a 250 m swim, 10 km bike and 2.5 km run. Results: 47:12 completion. 5th/32 women and 6th/43 total participants. 2nd fastest bike out 43 participants. Not bad for a 41 year old women. bella1007: Well for my first tri - triathlon I finished 4th out of 19 competitors of all ages and both female and male. Not bad for a 41 year old. LOL View all 4 posts bella1007: So wise for someone so young. LOL. I totally agree with what you are saying. I try and live my life as treat people with the same respect, love and caring as you wish they treat you. But sometimes, and I dont know why, my needs or wants come before theres. Is this wrong?  About to leave: This is what i would call it a grey area....neither black or neither white......... in other words hard to decide what is wrong and what is right ...!! the guilt in urself itself shows that you try to make a conscious decision... bella1007: I am hoping it is only a phase. I think I am confused between confidence and selfishness. bella1007: A dear friend of mine just found out she has a lump in her breast and that it is an aggressive cancer. Life is so precious. About to leave: is it so bella? what is the risk ? a) Risk/fear that ur spouse will know or b) risk of falling in love with someone else? |
