Older guy in Sydney - here for Wordy & maybe a chat.... both even!
I like meeting different people, making a friend, getting to know them - finding out what makes them tick
In my other life, I like cryptic crosswords & various puzzles, playing pool, red wine, boating/camping/fishing, AFL football & golf.
Boldgo: Just to clarify - I am not closing my account; I will be looking in. My withdrawal is more a large step back. Thanx to those who have been touch too
Boldgo: Hiya. You can read this because you are on my friends list.
My domestic situation has recently reached a point where I need withdraw from Wire. Significantly, I will be not be playing much wordy for the foreseeable future. If/when this changes I will let you know but if you wish you can contact me on Skype (Boldgo) or email - email@example.com
Boldgo: Just back from a week in Coffs Harbour - great place! And yes, we did get to Little Diggers.
Back to work now for a couple of days then a busy weekend coming up after which I go in for a hernia op. Will be taking it easy for a few days after that! lol
Kassie1990: Thank you for taking the time to talk with me. Just needed a non judgemental ear . Thank you for allowing me to vent a little.
Kassie1990: Truly well thought out and expressed. Am so glad that you pointed out in different words than what I will use, but that the submissive has the true power in the D/s relationship not simply with a safe word but in the limits as well.
Do live this lifechoice in real life and will never engage in it online. Online is very much for lack of a better phrase " one dimensional ". In real life all of the senses must be utilized in order for even a mild scene to become a reality. There also must be a full , true and complete exchange of information , some examples are likes, dislikes, fears, fantasies, limits both hard and soft. This needs to be fully learned in order to insure a safe play session or scene. So in reality a very simple scene can take days or weeks to prepare for.
Now will jump on my soapbox and say something that I hope those in the lifechoce will agree with and maybe come up with ideas that will help wit issue I will write about.
I become very angry at what occurs online with people simply calling themselves D or sub. Will explain why. Say someone for a long time has wondered about BDSM. Has always been shy or afraid to seek out information. Finally after much going back and forth with whether to do or not , he or she finally decides to seek out information. Tat person comes online and is met by a lowlife, predator, scammer or someone simply looking for fun. The newbie knows no better and begins to learn fro someone with no true and real experience. The newbie becomes confused upset or in many cases hurt. Decides then to leave believing the stereotype that BDSM is bad or wrong, What just happened , happens am sure daily online. The BDSM community because of the jerks passing themselves off as experienced , loses out on a potential great D or submissive.
How can the BDSM community help itself then from this occurring? That question I pose to all the readers. Now jumps off my soapbox, lol.
Boldgo: So. A pedophile can feel better by confessing their crime, the church will do nothing while the victim gets nothing.
Regardless of the traditions involved, this is morally WRONG.
To catholics everywhere - SHAME. Is this how your 'god' works? REALLY??