 Blog PostsFriends         | Sex & love vs Sex or love?So, I have a topic that I'm kinda curious about & I only want well thought out answers. & by that I mean don't tell me what you think, ideally, the answer should be in a 'perfect world'. I want to know how you personally feel on the topic. So here we go....When having sex, do you feel connected to your partner on a romantic level? When you are craving physical intimacy, is it a need for a particular partner, is it a bond for you that you crave? Or is it simply the act of sex that you desire & altho you are comfortable with someone (wife/husband/bf/gf) would it be any different to you if that same act was preformed with another person? & not many of you can say you loved everyone that you slept with so I'm asking you to think about that rare or common one night stand etc. you know, the one that just 'didnt mean anything' lol. & if you think sex & love are two seperate things, why do you think you feel that way when it seems sex & love are suppose to be united? & for those of you who feel they are two in one, why do you feel that way & why do you think such a percentage of the populaton can easily seperate the two for one night stands, friends with benefits, & so on. & no, I'm not talking about those who have failed and made a sloppy friends with benefits situation, I'm talking about the successful ones as well as the open relationships & marriages etc. -Looking forward to reading some pretty awesome answers.  barbot_jared: sex and love are actually the same. you feel the connection between someone that is there at that moment and you can figure out if there gunna stay with you or leave by there facecal exspretion. theres the smerk, the trash talking after your done: those are the ones that are leaving. the smile with no words to say, or the one where they laugh when you ask them how it was shows that they had never had sex befor or they dont know how to react to it: but theyare the ones who will stay with you. 11 years ago • Report 0  straywlf: Sex is an act performedI to acquire a desired result. Love is an emotion. It can be contained in the act of sex, but not needed. There are very few mammals that have sex for pleasure. Humans and dolphins are the only 2 I know of. For me I choose to have feelings or a connection between me and any partner I am with. It hasn't always been that way but for the most part it has. Some people have no empathy and can't connect with others. It's all all about themselves. Narcissistic. The more lifes experiences we have the more we can learn what it's like from all views. |
