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chatting romantic

Day by Day chatting craze is increasing. Networking sites are now even providing audio and video chat free for there registered user. This has become new way of communication has its own slang and developing its own grammar. This has shrink world a lot at least at thought level. On a click of button u r connected to other side of to a person with whom u never contacted in person nor u know about him anything. Communication takes place without disclosing your real identity. Whatever other chatter says to each other they pretend to believe. This has brought new dimension to the communication.
Chatters are enjoying this type of communication, bcoz they can build there personal image to the virtual world of chatting the way they like. An 80 yrs old can act as 22 young, married can declare themselves single. This has allowed them to play with there fantasies and flirting. Which they were not able to do in real life. A new way of fun.
Chatting is now a medium for relaxation and ventilating mind to release stress. It takes them to different world of fantasy and fun, Yes I agree it has many bad sides. for most of them it is as addictive as any drug. That’s why parents keep eyes on there children’s. offices watch employees secretively and many times put them in embarrassing situation. Many of us are tempted to share our private information like mobile numbers, address and then get trapped into wrong hands. Today I will not discuss those issue, lets go into positive side of it.
We all have some issue, fantasy and dreams, guilt and sins. Tons of unanswered question which we can not discuss in real world, these questions keep disturbing us. These issue remains in our mind creating psychological problems like stresses, fear and anxiety and unnecessary confusion. Once u open up and discuss those issue without fear and anxiety u gets gr8 relaxation because of two reason..one u shared those thought to some one u know, and second discussion helps in reaching to the solution.
We desperately search some one with whom we can share those issues. Thanx to the internet chat and emails where u can keep your identity secret and even after that u can come as close to other chat partner on thought level as if its in u. This helps creating a medium where u can discuss issue which cannot be discussed with so called very-very intimate friends and relations in real world.
Best chat friend are those who helps u open up and don’t stop your thought flow. Instead, they encourages so that u create your inner rhythm and harmony to the thoughts..and u reach to that level where u were never before. U r amazed to the discovery of your own. Most of time releasing those thoughts open up the emotional blockage and u feel gr8 relief. I know many cases where they got magical relief in their body pains change in there behaviour. More over once those blocks are released then u start seeing world in right prespective.
As north Indian I can say, if two partners are using dirty slang, then chances are that they are close…in comparision to those who uses mannerisms and formal decorum. Similarly if two chat friend can discuss s%~ chat without fear, it means they can discuss anything under the sun. so my advice is don’t be scared of sw# chat and don’t straight way reject them…interact them and in few interaction u will come to know there real motives.
More over chatting romantic takes u on the wings of emotion and gives a good day as we know that emotions are controlled by your subconscious and super conscious, at this level our mind can not differentiate between reality and fiction..it just go by thoughts. That’s the reason jus thinking of romantic thoughts brings happiness and joy on our face...so while chatting make use of romantic words, as it brings, happiness, laughter and joy if expressed in right mood.
Romance and love brings finest feeling of emotions, It express love ...the deepest sentiments in most cheerful way. It sets the finest of feelings at fire, and take relationships higher on the wings of affection and fantasy.
It creat a right mood to discuss more bizarre word sy$. Use romantic and sx$ chat to melt the boundaries of formalities, and make your partner comfortable with u and after few session things will settled and then u enter into new world. Its like digging a hole for water…it start with mud…and once mud is clear u get a fresh water which quench your mind.
I m not favouring those who start chat for s@~ and ends chats with s#w and are not ready to listen to the other issues. Those who cant think other then s&*. These can be easily identified…my advice is stay away from them because they are not your strength. What I mean is once a formal relation has build with your chat friend then then they can build next level of relationship sharing sexual chat, and see if both r comfortable and enjoying. If it happens then soon they will be able to unlock the deepest fear and fantasies which are the root cause of abnormal behaviour and stresses. As they start disclosing and discuss they see tremendous relief as if pressure cooker valve is operated. Use s%z chat to creat a strong bond of virtual relationship.
Remember s%# chat is not a guarantee that u will get your dream chat friend in first go. Also beware, that it can take u to the addicted world of s^~ or it may creat a guilt and fear in u. So if u r mature enough to handle these then only u use this tool. As it only create a better chances..its like searching diamond in the coal field. And I can only say that fropper is full of such diamond…what u need is little bit patience and inner eye to find one for yourself. ... dev