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I am bisexual, I do crossdress but rarely. If you have an issue with that, please don't be a jackass and cause drama in the chat room and remember, you are going to see a lot more gay, bi, lesbian, gender-questioning people going forward. Maybe recognizing our similarities is more productive than fearing or hating our differences.
I try to live without judgement, here is what that looks like, ok? I cannot judge you as a person, I can judge the feck out of stuff you say or do. I can never ever say you are a good person or a bad person, nor can I say you deserve____ or do not deserve_____.
Some of us are taught to love our neighbours as we love ourselves. I seriously and mindfully practice this to the best of my ability. So my default is that I love you and I want to like you. It is not as fun to love people when they are so difficult to like.
I actually sat in a room with some recent drama and heard multiple people agree that "LGBT have a right to live." THOSE ACTUAL WORDS. Do you see what is wrong with that? Speak up against hate!
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ircurts: The thing is Jill, you have never shown ugly behaviour where I saw it. Any time I saw something that seemed off in your chat I always could find the context to it. I get kind of ugly when I react to someone bullying someone else.
RubyMoon4: Curt you are beautiful..yes the beauty of a person is inside..and ugly is behaviour..I have been totally ugly during times in my life..I had to dig very deep and do much work on myself..It was very rewarding, i can now say I am only ugly if pushed..