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Things That People Should KNOW And Not ASSUME!!!

SERIOUSLY???? SERIOUSLY????
First off, I would like to THANK the people that have ASKED me about my Florida trip instead of making an ass of themselves and ASSUMING all the rumors were true. I can't believe I have to VALIDATE my actions because people are too incompetent to get FACTS as appose to FICTION!!! Secondly, I'm a grown woman. I don't need to get permission from ANYONE to get laid, nor do I have to tell you who I'm sleeping with. It's really NONE OF ANYONE'S BUSINESS BUT MY OWN!


Secondly, I want ALL OF YOU, not just some of you, to know that if you're gonna start shit then I'll end shit for you. I don't take kindly to being threaten. Be a F*CKING WOMAN and grow a pair of tits to threaten me to MY FACE!!!! You might think you're ghetto gangsta but lemme tell you something. You're staring at an OG n^%xy when you look at me. Don't EVER f*cking think that you can threaten me and I'll act like that shit don't matter. A few people came back and told me what you said. Now I'm not mad at you for SAYING it. I'm MAD that you didn't have the cajones to say it to me personally. If that's the route you want to take, then so be it. All I ask is that you don't make idle threats until you get here in NY and can say it to my face. Just make sure when you do, you have enough manpower or firepower to back up those words. I may be all smiles and giggles online but you're threatening a Brooklyn B%@x$. Never forget that.

I always thought women had more brains than men do but it's seemingly obvious that some of you don't use it. I've always loved the saying "Bros Before Hoes" and I think "Chicks Before Dicks" should be a given as well. I have NEVER coveted another woman's property and I don't plan on starting that now. But you go off a tangent and WRONGFULLY accuse me of doing so instead of "manning" up and asking me. Hell if you didn't believe me or Hans then there's other people you could have asked, like Scars, Iron, Dazed, So Deep or Hans' roommate, John. Instead, you drag my name through the mud for bullshit drama.

Did it ever occur to you that perhaps the person that TOLD you had an ulterior motive for saying it? Did it ever occur to you to ask yourself why he called YOU first to tell you instead of coming into a chat room, such as Wireclub, and saying it for ALL to see? Or calling SOMEONE ELSE FIRST for that matter? Did it cross your mind that he was blowing smoke up your ass? Or that he's JEALOUS? Or perhaps he's just a LOSER that needs entertainment in his life? OF COURSE IT DIDN'T!!! You were the perfect little "innocent" sheep being led to the proverbial slaughter.

All of this crap is suppose to be left in HIGH SCHOOL!!!! Adults should know how to handle situations like this but I am also at fault. I should not have fuel the fire but I felt like I was being attacked for no reason. People wanted to talk so I gave them something to talk about. I got a call yesterday telling me that I should put myself in the other person's shoes. I have several huge problems with that: (1) I'm NOT insecure about the people I screw/f*ck. I have confidence in my abilities. (2) If the person I'm sleeping with is my boyfriend/fiance/etc, then I have enough TRUST IN HIM to know that he wouldn't f*ck someone else when my back is turned. (3) If the person I'm sleeping with IS F*CKING other people, then it's got NOTHING to do with the person he slept with. It has to do with a breakdown in the communication between him and I. (4) I REALLY don't GIVE A FLYING RAT'S SHIT about who anyone's sleeping with. Unless I have a ring on my finger or we have decided TOGETHER that we are being exclusive to one another, then he's free to sleep with whomever he chooses, just as I'm free to do the same.


So yeah, I can't put myself in anyone else shoes. My shoes fit perfectly so I don't need to trade. I've said my peace.