What I am afraid of

i have many phobias so her it goes snakes,spides heights and small enclosed places and deep water sounds weird for a cali girl huh well i been told everyone is afraied of something but my dad gets mad when i freeze due to a spider so if everyone is afraied of something they why get mad due to fear. my mom told me to contact dr phil and ask him for help to deal with this particular fear and get over the tramatic experience theat brought this fear on/