Jennifer Morgan (silverstream1) Offline

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Being fan of a split Group or couple


There are many things that can be said about both the Past and Present members of any Musical group. One thing is for sure is that fans still love them to pieces. Many of us save up our allowances, wages, etc. in order to see a live concert or to go to a fan Meet. But most of us do not have the time or money to do so. So we rely on twitter and Tumblr accounts and fan posts and other websites such as Facebook, YouTube. As well as other SNS (Social Networking Sites) in order to know what is happening at the moment with the members and also to make sure that they are doing well. We know that because of their chaotic schedule they don't get much sleep and constantly worry about them and wonder if they are doing alright, and it seems the members know that we worry about them as they constantly post online what there currently doing and how they are. This just shows that the group understands and loves us fans just as much as we love them. It also shows that Idol groups or solo artist make an active effort to show their fans how much they appreciate the support and love that the fans give them. We all know that it can get lonely and extremely tough for them, from day one with things such as being homesick and missing family. But there is also something else that they have alongside the fans and that is the other members of their group. Videos of them playing around onstage, backstage . These videos just show how close the members have become over time. They may not be blood related or even like each other very much (if at all *cough Cough* Phi Phi O'Hara ) but that does not change the fact that they ARE a Family for all intensive purposes, when Shit hits the fan they will band together to defend one another from whatever accusations or insults may thrown. we may only be fans but we are part of one hellishly large and crazy family
it just goes to show. Blood Family isn't the only kind of family you can have.

Risk

Everyday we make choices that affect us and the people around us. When we are little we don’t think about the risks or consequences involved in the things that we do, we just do them because we want to. There are many risks that I have taken in my life; all of them have had an effect on who I am today. The biggest risk that I have taken in my life is telling the person I love how I felt. When I met this person I thought nothing of what I was feeling, I just brushed the feelings off as the excitement of having someone who finally understood me. All thought that person was in a relationship when I meet them; I have gotten closer to them over the time that we have known each other. I can tell them anything that bothers me or ask advice from them and know that they won’t turn away from me. I know that they will give me an honest answer. It took seeing the person I fell for getting hurt emotionally by the person they loved for me to realize how I strongly felt for them. There are many risks that a person takes when they enter a relationship with someone. One of the risks that a person takes is getting hurt by the other persons past or present issues. The fact that they have issues does not stop me from wanting to be with them, even though, I know I can get hurt because of them. When you meet someone that you feel strongly for you are willing to face anything that comes at you. The person I have fallen for has issues, I want help them get through those issues because I don’t want to see them deal with the pain alone. That is just one of the many risks that we take into account in everyday life.

Love

Love is something our hearts Desire, Want, Long for, and most of all Need everyday. When we say "I Love You" to someone we know, we generally mean it as a friend or family member, not as a lover and when we meet the person who makes us feel all of these things, then we mean it as a Lover, we think that they will never do anything to hurt us, physically or emotionally. And when they do, it may not have been intended to hurt us at all. A good friend of mine told me "Love isn't always romantic, plainly put, it hurts. Your loved ones can hurt you in ways that no one else can" and I realize that she is right. Our loved ones can hurt us in ways NO one else can. As Kids and Preteens we have crushes on our friends or classmates, as Teenagers we get more serious with our relationships, we'll do things like hold hands and maybe even have the occasional kiss with the person we have chosen. And as our relationships progress we go farther than just the tentative kiss; and eventually we want to go all the way with the person we are with. As teenagers we think we know everything about love after one relations ship, the truth is we don’t. Plain and simple we don’t realize Just how much we end up putting into our Relationships, and if they don’t work out... Our hearts get broken. I’ve seen people who have given their all in the relationship they are in and sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn’t, we don’t realize that as a friend it effects us also, seeing someone we care about to lose someone they love hurts just as much as if it was our own relationship because we care about that person ... But sometimes we don’t count on falling for that friend ourselves. When we fall for a friend we try to hide it because we think it’ll be too weird for us or sometimes we tell that friend that we have fallen for them and it may work out for us and… it may not. Someone told me “if it’s meant to happen it will if it’s not then it won’t”. When you think about it, it's true, we may want things to happen and they don't and thinks we desperately don’t want to happen Do especially when it comes to relationships. Even if that person leaves, our feelings for them don't. We still care for them more than we let them know. We also have to realize that some emotions will surface more strongly than others and can be misunderstood by us; I know from Personal experience that it isn’t easy to handle. Having so many emotions running around in your head, it gets so confusing and you get to feeling depressed because of actions that you do, you end up hurting people that you Never want to hurt. When that happens it scares you, because the person who did those actions isn’t who you really are, and you feel so alone and afraid, but you have to realize that you are not alone. Ever, you always have people there who will help you through it and who will have the guts to be blunt and honest with you and who will tell you to Wake Up and realize what’s going on. A close friend of mine brought me to my senses, I was feeling So Sad and hurt that I lashed out at people I cared about just to make myself feel better and I ended up hurting people I love, when you are feeling hurt and angry things seem to not matter except for what You are feeling, but that’s not true they do matter because they have consequences. My friend told me what he thought and that woke me up to how I was acting, I will always regret the actions that I did to hurt people, but I also can’t have a pity party about it I have to keep going on and hope that the people I hurt can forgive me someday