ex's are a pain in the butt

my ex's are a pain in the butt. my ex husband try so hard to give my mom a hard time. she just lost her husband of 30 years . so heand his friend is really been jackass to her. i just talk to her and she was piss off and stressed out. And my boyfriend ex's is no better than mine. she has her son stay with me and my boyfriend and he 23 year old can he get his on darn place to stay. and do his on freakin clothes