 Friends    | To be faithful...I'm 26 years of age,I'm current student at University of Fiji and National Employment Center..And also doing volunteer service at Pacific Island Aids Foundation as a Vice President of Youth 2 Youth Group.I involved myself in lots of useful things that i know that can help my future. I'm youth leader in my church and also one of the singers, I love to sing and i love to sing any kind of songs that can make me love and enjoy.. I don't allow myself to drink, smoke or any kind of things that can destroy my life..I am kind, respect, humble, lovely, faithful, responsible, sociable, and active, with sense of humor. I am extremely optimistic. I am not offensive as most man as i understand that forgiveness is so important in relations  veresa to BRiTNEYDEE08: cute!!! 11 years ago • Report • Link 1  veresa joined Music is Magic veresa: The people we are in relationship with are always a mirror, reflecting our own beliefs, and simultaneously we are mirrors, reflecting their beliefs. So... relationship is one of the most powerful tools for growth... If we look honestly at our relationships, we can see so much about how we have created them. You must begin to trust yourself. If you do not, then you will forever be looking to others to prove your own merit to you, and you will never be satisfied. You will always be asking others what to do and at the same time resenting those from whom you seek such aid. A loving person lives in a loving world, A hostile person lives in a hostile world, Everyone you meet is your mirror. A power struggle collapses when you withdraw your energy from it. Power struggles become uninteresting to you when you change your intention from winning to learning about yourself. A collection of inspirational wisdom, sayings and quotes about relationships, love, marriage and spiritual partnership. There are many different types of relationships we can have with one another, from friendship, romantic love to parental or sibling love, or working relationships. Whilst love can feel wonderful and bring much joy and happiness, it can also bring much pain. Yet it is through pain that we learn the most. To live without love is to not live at all and shrivels the soul, and we learn nothing. But there are ways to be in relationship with others that is positive and uplifting to yourself and to the other, even if the relationship doesn't last forever. In love relationships we have much to learn from the other. The important people in our lives (actually all people in our lives) are really mirrors. We draw to us those who will help us learn about ourselves. Each time we are presented with a challenge in a relationship, we are really being presented with an 'opportunity' to look inside ourselves to see what about us it is that needs working on, so that we may grow. As an example, if a partner behaves in a way that elicits let's say, jealousy, in us, then they are actually triggering an emotion inside us that is incomplete - that is the 'mirror'. We look at that emotion that has been triggered and so rather than point a finger at the other one (that is us being a 'victim', we look at our 'jealousy' and see that we have an issue with 'jealousy' and there is our opportunity to change that about ourselves. Jealousy is a fear that we are not good enough, and therefore we can then see that if we worked on our 'not-good-enough' belief, then regardless of the other person's behaviour, we would no longer experience 'jealousy (that is us taking back our power). We can't change another, only ourselves. |
