 Friends       | I am a cynical hermit stranded on the planet called earth.  chalmersjohn456: Hi I'm new and from London as well. 4 years ago • Report • Link 0  AraleChinois: The train was packed and it was a bumpy ride on the tracks. A guy stepped on my big toe today on a subway train. I was sitting. He was standing. He had too many holes on his sneakers and...pants...and he was wearing his pants low enough to show the top of his Tommy Hilfiger underwear. When it was less crowded, he reached for his dusty backpack on the floor and fished out a few of sour cream candies. He offered me some and I looked up and said, "I am okay. No. Thanks." He's skinny and middle-aged. He wore a baseball cap backward. Inside my head, I was going like..."Sir, you have the right to wear that many holes on you. But you are not young enough and good-looking enough to wear your pants like that. Damnit. Sorry, you have a flat ass." AraleChinois: We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone. --Orson Welles AraleChinois: When meeting an older guy (50s or even 60s) with certain amount of charisma/charm/attractiveness, I caught myself having weird thoughts in my head.That is, "He is so attractive. His age makes him like great wine....I wish I could grow up like him. But wait, I am not a kid anymore. So sad, it is too late to grow up like him. Man, growing old sucks." AraleChinois: I get pissed off easily recently. (DAMN YOU,HORMONES. I have skipped a cycle. And I am still made.) I asked myself, "Who do you think you are? You have no right to demand the world/the universe to grant all your wishes.You are not nobody." Then I thought, "I am somebody in my universe." Again, I am calling myself a cunt again. No joking. Still that cracked me up.  GeraldtheGnome: Never tell those of mixed company that you have skipped such a thing. Most don't want to know about that. AraleChinois: Just done Marnie Was There. It is sad, but not bad. The plot is like inception. Finally I managed to figure out what happened. There is no real ghosts in the movie. I mean "ghosts from the past" maybe. Anna blacked out frequently. She's always faced down lying on the ground after every meeting with the blonde girl Marnie. On top of that, she has depression and even bipolar disorder. Seriously, it has the most fucked-up story (in comparison to other Ghibli animated movies). AraleChinois: The other day at the library I had an uncomfortable pick-up experience.(FYI, It doesn't happen often in my life.) A random guy: Excuse me, can I ask you something? Me: Yes? Okay. The guy: Do you work at the library? Me: Sorry, no. The guy: Can I ask you another question? Me: Okay. The guy: Are you a Chinese Canadian? Me: (Sigh) To answer your question,let me put it this way. I wasn't born in Canada. But I am here to stay...permanently. The guy: Oh. I thought you were a Chinese Canadian. Me: Can I ask you a question? The guy: Sure. Me: Why do you have so many questions...about me? The guy: I am sorry. Me: It is alright. (Then he gave me the elevator eyes x2) Me: Do you like my sneakers? They only cost me 5 bucks. They are among the $10 for two items. The guy: Really? Wow, actually I am looking at your jeans. Me: Do you want to get yourself a pair of tight jeans? They are less than $10. [What I wanted to say was: Stop elevator-eyeing me, for god's sake. Are you done finding holes on me?]  AraleChinois in reply to shadowline: For your information, he is a big black guy. I bet that technique worked well at least once. AraleChinois: Believe it or not, my fingers are smarter than me. Except for the fact that they like typing extra "no". I end up confusing a lot of people. My brain should learn the confusing trick. Next week I am going to throw some philosophical questions at 4 years old kids. I mean, a little brat loves throwing a tantrum. Let us see who can throw better. The loser looks more confused for sure. AraleChinois: What is asexuality? An asexual person is someone who does not experience sexual attraction. Unlike celibacy and sexual abstinence, asexuality is not a choice. Someone who is asexual may have sex, or they may choose to be celibate/abstinent just like anyone else. Although asexuals don't experience sexual attraction, they may experience romantic attraction an be in relationships with other people. Those relationships may or may not be sexual in nature. What is it like to be asexual? Asexual people, as mentioned, don't experience sexual attraction. What does that mean? Sexual attraction is obviously not easy to definite for asexual people, because it's like colorblind people trying to explain the difference between colors they can't see the same way non-colorblind people do. It's different from romantic attraction, or aesthetic attraction, or libido. To put it simply, asexual people don't feel an intrinsic desire to make sex a part of their relationships with other people. AraleChinois: I started a lot of blogs over the years. And I gave up because I kept recalling passwords. Today I decide to go back to blog. I had to google myself. It happened that I don't remember I have an account on this site. Weird. |
